Originally Posted By: Blkstanger
Sounds to me like Stepdad was right and YOU were dead wrong. You state that he owns the SUV with your Mother. So he must take care of it and all the maintenance right? So why don't you respect him enough to do things as he asks? When you go buy one of your own you will get to treat it as bad as you want to. Just because you don't like the guy doesn't mean you get to abuse his stuff now does it. Abuse=doing things to a vehicle that the owner doesn't like.
No, he does not, actually, he does not do ANY of that except use it and by "use it" i mean get driven to and from the dialysis unit of the hospital every day in the passenger seat of it, he cant drive, legally cant due to disability he has one leg. He even married into ownership and even THEN its still not HIS, its Stepmom's technically technically name on title and to Wells Fargo Vehicle Financing unit (bought from dealer in 2003 we owe on it and they threatened to repo it two months ago when we had no work, apparently stepmom owes $11000 on this 2003 GMC Envoy XL that was mint when we bought it and still is) so you can see the whooole picture. We do everything, thanks. All he does is.. well not really anything, but you are right he DOES like to feel important. i dont give him that satisfaction. Still. You make it seem like i had "malicious intent." You obviously arent reading what im saying.. i did what my STEPMOM wanted.
He had diddly to do with this until he inserted himself. I can appreciate you think im a tool here but i think you arent understanding that this is NOT his truck although he thinks it is and went spouting off at the mouth as if it was and as if there were a problem. I dont like that. Also, again, i helped warm it up. ?
Stepdad STILL didnt have anything relevant to say about the matter except "huff and puff." It has 5w30 motor oil in it, i found out it is likely synthetic, and he didnt have anything to do with the situation. how is this 'dead wrong'? Im missing something here.
I like Overkill's take on things lol.
EDIT: DragRace, oldmaninsc = understanding of the situation. ls1mike, Blkstanger = lets call the Police, we have a vehicle abuser.
Ive dealt with a LOT more in my life than this old man, see my handle. Every now and then, though, he makes me question what exactly people are THINKING. Maybe he felt like he had to say something, but it was less about the vehicle which has SOME basis in "dont rev a cold engine" - ok, i get that more NOW than at first.. still, its more about "him." And thats not cool.