Did anyone achieve this?
I'm not talking about a stray cat that once lived with humans as they can usually adapt to human presence easily again, but a true wild cat.
We've been getting visits in the garden, a few weeks ago, from a few cats. I don't know how or why it started, but they were suddenly there. The wife started putting let over food outside at that point, and in doing so we could identify the strongest of the bunch really quickly. They had a specific order in which they helped themselves to the food and in 2 days only one kept coming. I guess any argument got settled the old fashioned way.
The one that kept coming is a female and was clearly (to me anyway) pregnant, although the wife and her friends figured she was just fat. I was right, as a week or 2 later she missed coming for a day and was thin after. Since then, she has shown her 6 kittens aswell.
Anyway, at first when we'd open the back door she'd run right out of the garden and return a few minutes later to check if we left food. Time went on and she'd only run to the end of the garden, then wait half way and return right after we go back inside.
Recently she's waiting right outside the back door or looking through the window into our living room but if we go outside she'll show her teeth and hiss if we get too close. I started to wait by the food in a lawnchair and see how close I can get her. Today I managed to touch the bowl with the food and shake it while she's eating without her stopping. She still hisses at me but even when I touched her ear today (naughty me) she didn't attack, just hissed and jumped back a few feet. In short, very defensive but not agressive.
When she brought her kittens over I'd hoped they would be more friendly, but they're actually worse than the mother. They definitely attack anything that comes within a few inches. They look cute, being smaller than my hand but they scare me. The mother obviously didn't like me getting so close as she changed her mind about having them on our deck and moved them under some bushes in the back of the yard. Iwas cutting the bushes back a bit today (chainsaw) and scared one of the kittens from under it. Maybe they'll move out of the garden all together now.
The cat will never be allowed to live in our house as the wife doesn't want animal hairs, but how domesticated and friendly am I going to get her, and how long will it take?
I'm not talking about a stray cat that once lived with humans as they can usually adapt to human presence easily again, but a true wild cat.
We've been getting visits in the garden, a few weeks ago, from a few cats. I don't know how or why it started, but they were suddenly there. The wife started putting let over food outside at that point, and in doing so we could identify the strongest of the bunch really quickly. They had a specific order in which they helped themselves to the food and in 2 days only one kept coming. I guess any argument got settled the old fashioned way.
The one that kept coming is a female and was clearly (to me anyway) pregnant, although the wife and her friends figured she was just fat. I was right, as a week or 2 later she missed coming for a day and was thin after. Since then, she has shown her 6 kittens aswell.
Anyway, at first when we'd open the back door she'd run right out of the garden and return a few minutes later to check if we left food. Time went on and she'd only run to the end of the garden, then wait half way and return right after we go back inside.
Recently she's waiting right outside the back door or looking through the window into our living room but if we go outside she'll show her teeth and hiss if we get too close. I started to wait by the food in a lawnchair and see how close I can get her. Today I managed to touch the bowl with the food and shake it while she's eating without her stopping. She still hisses at me but even when I touched her ear today (naughty me) she didn't attack, just hissed and jumped back a few feet. In short, very defensive but not agressive.
When she brought her kittens over I'd hoped they would be more friendly, but they're actually worse than the mother. They definitely attack anything that comes within a few inches. They look cute, being smaller than my hand but they scare me. The mother obviously didn't like me getting so close as she changed her mind about having them on our deck and moved them under some bushes in the back of the yard. Iwas cutting the bushes back a bit today (chainsaw) and scared one of the kittens from under it. Maybe they'll move out of the garden all together now.
The cat will never be allowed to live in our house as the wife doesn't want animal hairs, but how domesticated and friendly am I going to get her, and how long will it take?