I've cut apart a lot of used filters lately, and haven't sen any of them remotely clogged with particles after 3,000 to 4,000 miles. I think my biggest concern about running a filter for an extended period would be media degradation and possible collapse or tearing. I don't think a filter with cardboard endcaps should be used more than maybe 6,000 miles for a similar reason. If you run a quality filter with synthetic media and metal endcaps, I don't see the filter being used up in less than 15,000 miles unless there is something wrong with your engine, or the filter is extremely small.
If you have an oil pressure gauge, keep an eye on it. Note the minimum pressure on cold startup, and note the max pressure at operating temperature. If it doesn't deviate outside of those norms, you should be good to go.