OVERKILL
$100 Site Donor 2021
I can identify with this. However, had I been pushed toward engineering, which is something I now have a strong interest in, I would probably have a totally different career. But I didn't know I was interested in nuclear until I was in my late 20's, early 30's, though perhaps engineering would have taken me there if I had gone that route?Let's just say they did. I had incredible teachers that wrote to my parents and took me aside showing me IQ tests and much more. Part of the problem was I believed them.
My situation was of my own making; for that I am responsible. Teachers and other can lead, but it is up to the individual to pick up the tools. I chose to pick up a bottle and crawl inside for many years.
I don't believe the German system pushes you toward a specific career, it determines what your strengths are and then pushes you in a direction that exploits those, but the options within that realm are extensive.
You were lucky, but, you were also smart, so, despite your missteps, there was potential in you that others saw. Some people simply don't have that in a quantity sufficient enough to warrant giving them the same sort of chances you got.Ultimately Silicon Valley management gave me a chance; they were incredible teachers and encouraged me to run with my tasks. Then they rewarded me with many things, including more work. I flat-out loved it.
I appreciate your kind words.