I should have added “budget” in there as a requirement....
I certainly acknowledge fun cars. I have two fun cars. Cars that fit no requirement, just my desire to have them. That’s cool, just don’t confuse fun cars with transportation needs.
If you’re fortunate, you can get a car that fills the mission, meets the needs, and is still fun.
Our minivan was not fun. But it absolutely met the mission better than any alternative.
Let me add that the Volvo wagons, with a light weight FWD body, 250 HP turbo, wonderful seats, great brakes and handling, absolutely are fun while meeting the need. My kids love their Volvos. Having power to spare for an uphill pass at high altitude on the way to the ski area, and great brakes for the downhill return, they are both fun and meet the need for safety, passenger and cargo capacity, economy, reliability, and low cost (all bought used).
They were bought to do precisely what you outline above...just sayin’...perhaps a good used wagon fits the Bill?
Here is the ‘02 XC getting new brakes and a complete suspension rebuild. It’s got 265,000 miles on it. Still fun. Still hauls dogs, Costco supplies, goes to work, road trips to DC, and it has AWD, ABS, stability control, side airbags, Volvo construction and a turbo engine.