This job market is wild. In the same day I’ve seen job listings for accountant requiring a masters degree paying $16/hr and shelf stocker requiring you can lift 50 pounds for $15/hr.
I feel really similar in the “gave too much of myself” aspect. I put lots of blood and time in as a tech to constantly be reminded I was lucky to have a job. Only getting raises when I found different jobs that they didn’t want me to take or went straight to the owner about it as he really wanted to keep me, where my immediate manager was an everyone is replaceable type.
When I moved to the service desk from being a tech I was always chasing an imaginary brass ring. Turned down for raises due to “well, you’re doing great and service is booming but sales dept profit is non existent so we don’t have the funds”. Pay plan changes so we “had the opportunity to make more money”. Changes to how we had to schedule in order to get more oil changes in during a day, which is a killer when bonus structure is based on hours sold per repair order wrote.
I hope you find something you like and that fits financially. I really enjoyed my manufacturing job, it paid well but not well enough for my wife to reduce her hours. I was also treated exceptionally well there compared to dealership jobs. I hated to leave but that’s what made sense for my family so that’s what I did. Or maybe as another member posted it’s just laziness
So I get to just sit on my butt and relax at home while homeschooling 5 kids.