Get an obd2 module for that car that is compatible for FORscan.
The one I have has a metal switch on it to switch the modes, this is the one you want.
I have a dirt cheap windows 10 laptop for running FORscan and it has saved me tons of money.
I'm sure there is a setting to shut it off, and there are forums online to ask.
I have a 16 Escape without start stop, and I get about 26mpg with the 2.5L base engine.
FORscan is almost essential for these cars, as there is a lot of computer changes to service the car.
I have had to reset the battery control module when I replaced the battery, and there is a service mode to re-align the wipers, that normally only a dealer can do for $$$.
I also programmed a second key fob for the car.