Any oil can be your best or worst decision, depending upon how you use it.
I would no more run a dino HDEO for 30k miles in a traditional sump system than I would run a grp IV PAO for 3k miles and dump it; one is dangerously likely to not be doing it's job any longer, the other is a huge waste.
People should understand that the type lubricant selected should be a choice made AFTER you define your desired maintenance plan. Far too often, they get the cart before the horse. They want to pick a fluid, and then cram it into some arbitrary OCI for which they have put no thought into. Then, they wonder why it may not be working as well as they had hoped.
There is nothing wrong with using an HDEO in a gasser; I do it. But, I make sure that I get the value out of it. If you agree that the HDEOs have a more robust add pack, does that not indicate there is potential to be used for a longer duration?
Fundementally, most all lubricants protect to the same level when new and early on in their life-cycle. As they age, they have the additive package get depleted, and the base stock gets contaminated. Premium fluids (HDEOs & synthetics) have more robust add-packs to deal with harsher and/or longer expected exposure.
It's not that HDEOs and synthetics protect "better"; they protect "longer". Look at many HDEO UOAs in diesels, and you'll see what I mean. Much more often than not, a dino HDEO does as well as any synthetic for short to moderate OCI durations. Only when a dino HDEO becomes overwhelmed does a synthetic begin to "out perform" a dino. Until that point is realized, they are both doing a job adequately enough to show no significant difference statistically.
So, applying that logic to PCMO and HDEO dino oils, the same is true. PCMOs work just fine until they become overwhelmed; only after that point would the more robust add-pack of a HDEO have the advantage.
The question becomes this: did you use the fluid you chose long enough to get your value out of it, but not so long as to risk damage from a degraded oil? Here is where UOAs come into play. You can analyze your wear and contamination trends, and predict the end of the healthful lifecycle of your lube. UOAs are an in-direct view of equipment health, but they are a DIRECT view of lubricant health.
If you OCI along the OEM spec'd guidelines with spec'd fluids, your equipment will last a long time. Equipment longevity is a function of your maintenance plan, and is NOT solely a product of the lube you use.
If you don't use ANY product to it's full potential, it's a waste. So, if you choose to use HDEO rather than a PCMO in the application, the real question is: did you get your value out of it?
We've all heard the saying "You get what you pay for." But there is a LARGE caveot to that phrase that no one seems to remember; you only get what you paid for IF you use it all!