Why do so many folks on BITOG feel the need to....

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Originally Posted By: Quattro Pete
Originally Posted By: Pablo
Why do so many folks on BITOG feel the need to control others?

I'm a little confused what you're asking. Are you asking why yaris0128 treated that girl the way he did? Or are you asking why other BITOGers treated yaris0128 they way they did?



In his case, he really seemed bent on controlling the girl's behavior. With urine. Sorta creeped me out.
 
Oh, OK. For a moment I thought you were wondering why we (other BITOGers) are trying to control his behavior by telling him what to do and what not to do in that particular situation.
 
Originally Posted By: Pablo
Why do so many folks on BITOG feel the need to control others?

I'm really curious. I think it's an internet control thing.


There is "control", Pablo, and then there is the simple concept of establishing some canons of decency for behaviour by which we are all expected to adibe; as all of our business and a goodly portion of even our personal behaviour takes place within the context of our society. Respecting the liberty and freedom we all have as people born into this world is fine and is perhaps our highest ideal; but it is curtailed in a million ways to prevent our society from becoming something that is to all accounts indecent: We prohibit violence, theft and other improprieties. Gross, gratuitous, soulless, unkind, exploitative profiteering is fast becoming one of those things that we ("we" being the people who own and are solely responsible for the upkeep, constitution, identity and profile of the "society") are beginning to find abhorrent enough to say "Enough is enough: This is indecent and sick and it is an indication that our world is becoming indecent and sick. It must be fixed."

The easiest, quickest and most destructive way (that is to say, the way that is least respectful of humanity and human liberty) to re-form practices that a critical mass feels is abhorrent is to coercively and forcefully regulate that everyone must do as they are told, via laws, laws and then even more laws. This, of course, declines quickly into an equally unhealthy situation whereby those that make laws are beholden to and finally accountable to the people whose behaviour we find abhorrent in the first place. This situation is an enemy to both liberty for the individual and the collective society which it fraudulently claims to represent. There is also the unavoidable mess that happens when you try to blanket everyone with a fixed set of rules.

The more difficult way to correct a behavioural or cultural trend is to allow the power of people directly (in your capitalism, that is measured by your population's buying power and their ownership of property) to influence the zeitgeist. Here are a few examples:

We may choose to not buy a product from (an auto manufacturer) because they received gov't handouts. Since corporations have no sense of decency or moral compass (not because they are inherently evil, but because those things just aren't built into the template or model for how they are constructed and how they operate), they may respond to market forces and alter their practices.

We may choose to boycott BP gas because of their handling of the leak. Since corporations have no sense of responsibility toward keeping out habitat liveable (not because they are inherently evil, but because those things just aren't built into the template or model for how they are constructed and how they operate), they may respond to market forces and alter their practices to appease the sensitivities and values of their consumers.

We may cancel our Paypal accounts because of their treatment of the Wikileaks account. Since corporations have no reposponsibility to hold the powers of Big Brother in check (not because they are inherently evil, but because those things just aren't built into the template or model for how they are constructed and how they operate), they may respond to market forces and alter their practices to value the right of people to hold their government accountable to them instead of the other way around.

These, at least, are the direct result of people's free will to make decisions based on criteria of their choosing rather than the twisted and not-at-all-representative-of-the-wishes-and-values-of-the-people actions that governments take. These are all failures that are resultant from our own apathy and sheepishness.

Please see then, Pablo, that people's outrage at abhorrent practices is based in common decency (... Which is subjective and changes dynamically over generations. Each individual's view of what common decency is and how it should be imposed widely is as valid as the next person's, as it is a matter of opinion: It is only when a critical mass acts upon those values do we see sea changes in society.); and their call for government to regulate those practices as an understandable temptation for us all to fix things the easiest and fastest way; and the way that requires as little direct effort from us as possible!

I should add to an already long-winded post that I have zero clue about the whole "urine" angle in your original post.

EDIT: I just read the urine thread. I'm going to go take a shower now.
 
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I should add to an already long-winded post that I have zero clue about the whole "urine" angle in your original post.

I think that pretty much sums up Pablo's point.
 
Originally Posted By: ZZman
Because freedom is an illusion.

If we were all free to do as we please most of us would be dead and the world would be in chaos.

Not concerning at all coming from someone in law enforcement....
 
The cowl guy did a pretty serious crime, then reported it in writing on the internet. He could be arrested for his smart deed, and confession of it.

The anonymity of forums is a lot like driving and people are trying to make you drive like they want you to, but even more anonymous.

I worked with a lady once who corrected everything everyone did. I went to staple papers together, and she thought it necessary to tell me how to staple. Her way was to hold fist in air and smash down on the stapler. That way was no good, from the looks of her stapling, but that is how know it alls are, they're often wrong.

Now I am not sure if I am a know it all controller or not by posting this, but it looks sorta like it haha.
 
Originally Posted By: Michael_P
See this thread. I think it explains it all. Can't come to bed.


I love that comic. I get a RSS feed of it every morning!

Originally Posted By: Michael_P
I too thought the pee pee thing was a little over the top. Kind of like an attempt to play it cool and you end up playing it cold.


It looks to me like he was playing it rather warm!
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Originally Posted By: Tempest
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I should add to an already long-winded post that I have zero clue about the whole "urine" angle in your original post.

I think that pretty much sums up Pablo's point.


I was replying more to the "pay police" portion.
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Originally Posted By: LS2JSTS
In the words of the great Elvis Costello...

"Two little Hitlers will fight it out, until one little Hitler does the other ones will"
I don't think Elvis(not the king)) ever realized that sometimes, a poc just needs a beating. Nothing more to it. If I missed the point of the hippieism, I apologize.
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I think there was some video of students being asked about sharing their grades.

College students who were out protesting that CEOs had too much money and should share were asked about their grades. If they had high grades, it was suggested that they share some of their 'excess GPA' with needy students.

The students complained that they worked for those grades and it would be unfair to share them.

Sadly, the students depicted, despite being straight A students were unable to make the connection between them working for their grades and those who make large salaries or who started businesses were working for the 'excess salaries' or earnings they made.

Can't find it now, but I heard it on the radio today, and it was pretty classic.
 
I'm not going to debate the merits of either example. However, the logic of the analogy is very poor, on several fronts.

Grades are not a fixed sum. (Unless a professor predetermines he will have so many of each letter grade in his class). If I study hard and make straight A's, it doesn't mean that there are less A's for somebody else. CEO compensation most definitely subtracts from the funds avaialble to pay other salaries, invest in a company's future or infrastructure, pay claims if they are an insurance company, and raises their operating cost so their prices will be higher.

Secondarily, the idea that a CEO "works harder" than, for example, a lumberjck, a ditch digger, an auto mechanic, or an accountant is completely subjective and, by most people's standards, simply incorrect. The compensation for the different jobs is predetermined not to be the same. I can be the best ditch digger in the world, and I'll still make less than a CEO who does a lousy job. And likely I would never have the opportunity to be come a CEO, in any reasonable probablility. But if I and another student are taking Biolgy 101 - we have a much more equal chance of getting an A, and it will be largely determined by how much effort we put into it. To make it more comparable to the CEO analogy would be to say that if I can get 40% on my test, I get an A while you need to get 99% or you will get a C. If you get 100% you can get a B - still less than I get evern if I do poorly on my test.


I agree - the discussion is a "classic". I love examples of poor logic and inappropriate analogies, and people thinking it profound thinking. My favorite, and by far the most common, is that A and B both happen, therefore A causes B.
 
Money is not a fixed sum either. New money is being created everyday. With fractional reserve banking, loaning out money does indeed create new money. So money is not a finite resource. Therefore, it stands up to that criticism.

So neither money, nor grades are a fixed sum.

If I work hard and do well, that doesn't mean there is less money for someone else to work hard and do well.

The other thing to consider is in competitive university, grading on a curve actually means there are targets for the numbers of A's, B's and so forth. So in some sense, there is a fixed number of grades.

I don't know of many universities that grade on if you get X% you get an A, y% is a B, etc. Instead there are means and standard deviations and where you fall on that curve determines the grade you get.

Therefore, are you sure you want to say that A grades are in unlimited supply? They are based on the scores and numbers of students graded in most cases.

You are right about there being limited opportunities for certain jobs. That's true. But you have to consider that you don't have to be a ditch digger. So if you want the compensation of a CEO, then don't study (or not study) to be a ditch digger.

Start your own company. Design the next killer App, or must have device. Solve some problem, provide some service better than someone else.

But don't just envy the stack that someone else has and say it's not fair their stack is bigger than your stack, so someone should take from their stack and spread it around to others with a smaller stack of green pieces of paper.

Go out and do something that is so valuable folks GIVE you some of their stack for your product or service.
 
The envy of others is a serious character flaw. You will never be more free than the day you quit looking at what the other guy is doing or saying. Who cares. Build your own mousetrap. You can't have what they've earned, it's theirs. So quit even thinking about it and get to work!

The only time to study others is if you need a mentor. Find someone who is successful in a field that you're interested in and study what they did. Most will readily share with you. Make sure there is "fruit on their tree".

Some businesses are doing well even in this [censored] economy. Make a decision today to better yourself.
 
Having traveled so much, I wonder how something like this could happen in Bellingham. Why? because people have room between each other and things are really not too stressful in this town near Canada. I always tried to stay in a motel in Bellingham as it was stress free. Living in NYC I am very aware of stress. This is not as much a control thing but makes a bad decision thing. So though Yaris has given me some good input at times this act says he may be 26 but he is going on 7 yrs old. So I think it is a mature item. I cannot believe that talking to the girl would not have helped. The area is loaded with easy to get along with people. Come to Astoria Queens then well you might say something else.
 
Originally Posted By: onebigunion
I can be the best ditch digger in the world, and I'll still make less than a CEO who does a lousy job. And likely I would never have the opportunity to be come a CEO, in any reasonable probablility.


So go start a ditch digging company and pass your superior skill to another generation of ditch diggers, all the while paying your junior ditch diggers whatever you think they merit.

Ever priced out an underground line? There is serious money involved in ditch digging. The efforts of the current administration notwithstanding, there is still opportunity to make a buck in this country. And there are plenty of dollars to go around - they print more of them every second, unfortunately. No need to be envious of someone else.

Personally, I wouldn't want to be a CEO of a large corporation, so I'm not envious of what they make, and I don't play the equity market, so I don't care if they are grossly overpaid or not - that's a shareholder problem and not my business.
 
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