What are you doing right now?

[CleanSump]

You're not going anywhere until you take the steps. Self pity ain't gonna attract anyone nor improve your life.
Last I'll say on this subject. Like the proverbial horse and water.

 

[AutoMechanic]

I’ve been doing more things independently it’s just it’s so hard and sucks to do stuff alone. My priority is getting a girlfriend. You guys seem to be against me all of a sudden but I’m listening to you and doing what I can.

 

[AutoMechanic]

I’m eating ravioli and trying to decide what to do tomorrow before I have to go back to work lol. I am definitely not ready to go back. I enjoy being off a lot more than I realized. It’s weird seeing so many places open when you are used to seeing them closed.

 

[HemiBenny]

My priority is getting a girlfriend.

Wrong.

Independence- that needs to be your priority.

Everything else follows.

 

[AutoMechanic]

Wrong.

Independence- that needs to be your priority.

Everything else follows.

Like independent as far as like going places alone like stores? Or being able to do things on my own? I can drive on my own and I can cook a couple things. Other than that not sure what else to consider as independent.

 

[HemiBenny]

Like independent as far as like going places alone like stores? Or being able to do things on my own? I can drive on my own and I can cook a couple things. Other than that not sure what else to consider as independent.

Not living with your parents. (Having your own place)
Paying all of the bills.
Being totally responsible for yourself.

 

[AutoMechanic]

Not living with your parents. (Having your own place)
Paying all of the bills.
Being totally responsible for yourself.

Well that’s definitely something I’ll have to work on. At this rate I’ll be living at home forever because housing in my area is impossible on a single income unless your income is just so high that you are fine.

 

[ClutchDisc]

Not living with your parents. (Having your own place)
Paying all of the bills.
Being totally responsible for yourself.

Well said. @AutoMechanic these should be your first priorities. You would be amazed how these will change your life.