What are you doing right now?

Never used that one. I’ve got Match, Bumble, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Duet and eHarmony, and Upward. No luck so far on any of them.
Facebook dating is pretty good too, I met a really nice woman there in 2021, we dated for 4 months and are still very good friends today.

I met my current girlfriend in Oct 22 on OKCupid. She messaged me first actually
 
Facebook dating is pretty good too, I met a really nice woman there in 2021, we dated for 4 months and are still very good friends today.

I met my current girlfriend in Oct 22 on OKCupid. She messaged me first actually
I have Facebook dating too. Pretty dead in my area to be honest. I’m trying my hardest but nothing seems to work out for me.
 
Here's the reality in the dating world. In this example, the women have lots of guys who are interested in the women, but the women are only interested in just a few of those guys. Need to be one of the 3 guys. Men Chase, Women Choose.

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What did you do before vs now? I love mechanic work. The only other thing I could see myself doing is working at an auto parts store.

I thought I'd told you my story when you've commented how you wished you could retire, as your current job is hard on your body.

At any rate, here it is in a nutshell: When I was your age, I was doing essentially what you are doing. I was a Master Tech at a Toyota dealer. Then I left and worked at independent shops that worked on all makes and models. During that time I became disillusioned with the car repair business, and realized I didn't want to do that all my life. So, during those years I was saving as much as I possibly could, and started taking night classes, and eventually earned an MBA. I quit the car repair business, took my life-savings, and the knowledge I learned from earning that MBA, and started my own business.

There were some extremely tough years, but eventually hard work and determination paid off, and I sold the business I had built, and retired early. For the last 23+ years I've had hobbies. One of which is being involved in professional racing, with some time away from that when family needs arose.

There are no guarantees no matter what you choose to do. But if you're not happy as you often state, you are young enough to make changes.
 
Probably too old and mature. But why scared?

Maybe a good goal to get friendly with her. Not for sexual relations but to help you learn to be at ease with women in your league
Great advice......
Plus if you haven't, clean up your act.. clean shaven and a good hair cut and be confident....

Be especially nice and helpful to older women. They can fix you up.
 
Gearing up to do install a motion detector light on a friend's garage. Perfect weather aside from the wind. If the wind dies down I might play pickle ball later, and then walk. Whoever says they're bored being retired has me shaking my head. I can be as busy or slow as I want now................... RETIREMENT FTW!!!!!!
 
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