What are you doing right now?

AutoMechanic said:
I’m chilling. It’s one of those days where loneliness has got me. But that’s ok I’ve made it thru before and can this time too. I try to think positive but it’s very hard. I’ve been looking into activities to do here with people. I live in the suburbs of a medium sized town but not having much luck finding coed groups of the things I’m interested in. Or if they are coed there are no girls in them. I don’t know what to do besides give up at this point.
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No colleges with evening classes ?
 
AutoMechanic said:
I’m chilling. It’s one of those days where loneliness has got me. But that’s ok I’ve made it thru before and can this time too. I try to think positive but it’s very hard. I’ve been looking into activities to do here with people. I live in the suburbs of a medium sized town but not having much luck finding coed groups of the things I’m interested in. Or if they are coed there are no girls in them. I don’t know what to do besides give up at this point.
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No co-ed sports of any kind, like soccer, tennis or softball? Might have to take up a new sport if there are some co-ed sports.
 
AutoMechanic said:
I am sure there is but I can’t think of anything I’d have the interest or energy to study.
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Didn't you recently turn 23? You are way too young to be this burned-out. Maybe change your diet, all that fast food is not good for your long term health, or stamina in the short term. Maybe join a health/fitness club. I guarantee there are women there.

Spend less time online talking to us old guys who have kids your age or older. Get out and live a little. You have some classic vehicles IIRC, maybe take them to local car shows.

Awhile back I suggested a change in careers, since you don't seem too happy with the current one. If that's the case, seriously consider what you want to do, and work towards that. Night classes, etc.
 
02SE said:
Didn't you recently turn 23? You are way too young to be this burned-out. Maybe change your diet, all that fast food is not good for your long term health, or stamina in the short term. Maybe join a health/fitness club. I guarantee there are women there.

Spend less time online talking to us old guys who have kids your age or older. Get out and live a little. You have some classic vehicles IIRC, maybe take them to local car shows.

Awhile back I suggested a change in careers, since you don't seem too happy with the current one. If that's the case, seriously consider what you want to do, and work towards that. Night classes, etc.
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I’m very happy in my career mostly so not looking so switch anytime soon. It does have days where I hate it but other than that it’s great. I’m just so tired by the time I get off I don’t think I could do anything physically after work like work on more cars or be able to sit in a class without falling asleep.

I got to get my Beetle running I’ve been wanting to get it running for 6 years but that’s another one of those things where I just don’t have the motivation to do it. And I’ve been trying to eat less fast food but it’s so good it’s hard to resist.
 
AutoMechanic said:
I’m chilling. It’s one of those days where loneliness has got me. But that’s ok I’ve made it thru before and can this time too. I try to think positive but it’s very hard. I’ve been looking into activities to do here with people. I live in the suburbs of a medium sized town but not having much luck finding coed groups of the things I’m interested in. Or if they are coed there are no girls in them. I don’t know what to do besides give up at this point.
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Your story reminds me of the days when I was jailed in Mellrichstadt Germany West. I was about 23 years old and serving 6 months for defrauding two Soviet dissidents.

Surely you must understand they were all trumped up charges as I only defrauded one.

You don't truly know loneliness until you served months in a dirt floor prison with only food and drinks once a day unfit for hogs..

In all my darkness the chow lady as we called her brought sunlight and a ray of hope to me. Her name was Gretchen and she was a pretty little Fraulein with buck teeth and a cleft chin.

She became smitten with me in time like most undesirable women do. She saved my life one night when I was in severe pain with a then unknown 16 mm kidney stone that had been acting up for several days.

She opened up the jail door and kicked me in the groin knocking me to the floor and got on top of me and began violently punching both kidneys helping to break up the stone.

She whispered to me in German while I was on the dirt floor this...

Es ist also wichtig, bei allem, ob gut oder schlecht, eins nicht zu vergessen: "Auch dies geht vorbei".
 
Zee09 said:
Your story reminds me of the days when I was jailed in Mellrichstadt Germany West. I was about 23 years old and serving 6 months for defrauding two Soviet dissidents.

Surely you must understand they were all trumped up charges as I only defrauded one.

You don't truly know loneliness until you served months in a dirt floor prison with only food and drinks once a day unfit for hogs..

In all my darkness the chow lady as we called her brought sunlight and a ray of hope to me. Her name was Gretchen and she was a pretty little Fraulein with buck teeth and a cleft chin.

She became smitten with me in time like most undesirable women do. She saved my life one night when I was in severe pain with a then unknown 16 mm kidney stone that had been acting up for several days.

She opened up the jail door and kicked me in the groin knocking me to the floor and got on top of me and began violently punching both kidneys helping to break up the stone.

She whispered to me in German while I was on the dirt floor this...

Es ist also wichtig, bei allem, ob gut oder schlecht, eins nicht zu vergessen: "Auch dies geht vorbei".
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I always thought you liked large women. Did that pass too?
 
I’m visiting Wendy in Niagara Falls. She’s a little sketchy in this hood 😳
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AutoMechanic said:
I’m chilling. It’s one of those days where loneliness has got me. But that’s ok I’ve made it thru before and can this time too. I try to think positive but it’s very hard. I’ve been looking into activities to do here with people. I live in the suburbs of a medium sized town but not having much luck finding coed groups of the things I’m interested in. Or if they are coed there are no girls in them. I don’t know what to do besides give up at this point.
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You might meet someone by networking. Joining a group might get you a date from one of the guys sister
 
Zee09 said:
Your story reminds me of the days when I was jailed in Mellrichstadt Germany West. I was about 23 years old and serving 6 months for defrauding two Soviet dissidents.

Surely you must understand they were all trumped up charges as I only defrauded one.

You don't truly know loneliness until you served months in a dirt floor prison with only food and drinks once a day unfit for hogs..

In all my darkness the chow lady as we called her brought sunlight and a ray of hope to me. Her name was Gretchen and she was a pretty little Fraulein with buck teeth and a cleft chin.

She became smitten with me in time like most undesirable women do. She saved my life one night when I was in severe pain with a then unknown 16 mm kidney stone that had been acting up for several days.

She opened up the jail door and kicked me in the groin knocking me to the floor and got on top of me and began violently punching both kidneys helping to break up the stone.

She whispered to me in German while I was on the dirt floor this...

Es ist also wichtig, bei allem, ob gut oder schlecht, eins nicht zu vergessen: "Auch dies geht vorbei".
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That reminds me of a buddy's girlfriend in Highschool. She mostly stuck to metaphorical kicks to the groin. I started referring to her as 'M22', reminding me of the trans in my buddies Chevelle...
 
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