What are you doing right now?
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Just left Walmart. Been feeling very sad this weekend since I don’t have anyone to enjoy life with. I’m ready to just give up on everything until someone can prove that a girl is in my near future.
Never give up!
The best way to meet people is to not try to meet people
Just be yourself be friendly and confident
Do you want fast or do you want good? Yeah, you're an impatient kid and want fast. Good is preferable. Easy not so much. Fast not so much. Act in haste, repent in leisure. Today was Sunday, the chance to get involved with a good church young people group, make new friends and maybe meet someone. How did it go? (Rhetorical)
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We just left Red Robin. It was good but I wanted Chinese food lol. I don’t care though it was free lol. Time to get soda at the gas station. I’ve been drinking too much soda recently but it’s hard when I’m stressed and lonely so I figure soda is better than alcohol.
Watch your sugar intake.
You might be pre diabetic with all that soda.
Ice water when you get thirsty.
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Lol. It’s a real issue Jimmy boy. Takes a toll on you mentally for sure.Would you stop with that stressed and lonely nonsense....geez
Cry
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It’s hard to quit. Water just don’t hit the spot for stress or loneliness though I have to have something that calms my nerves and that’s alcohol or caffeine. I do love a good glass of lemon water on a hot day though.
Start a work-out regime instead of hanging out and drinking sodas ... get buff for summer time and the women will be chasing you.
Dress nice for every situation- don’t overdress though
Yes get in shape at least to the point of feeling good and being confident
Do some kind of hard aerobic training and pop some Vitamin D. That attitude needs adjusting. Stop feeling crappy and sorry. Aim high and stop thinking like an erse,
AM - do something. Have a real goal. Join the coast guard or armed forces.
Get some hobbies - I mean active hobbies.
Seriously be on the move. Take classes. Do Bible studies. Join a hiking group. Learn calculus. Learn a new art form.
And be confident
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Get outdoors away from screens. You spend way too much time watching inanity. Get at least 15 minutes of actual sunlight vitamin D. Works wonders for mood and health. Read every day, at least 15 minutes. You'll have something more to talk about when you meet her. Learn new work stuff. You may be a great mechanic already but you can learn more and be even better. Pick up new skills you aren't currently tasked with. More skills more money. IF you are stressed or lonely it's partly from not keeping yourself active with worthwhile activities. Stop being a screentime couch potato. Get active and redirected. FIX IT.
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Eating lunch and chilling at work. Waiting on some used car work to get approved. Not many customers today but still making good time. It’s so nice to be making more money now and being appreciated and the new managers so far have been awesome the last few weeks.
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I still have to be nice as I have 11minutes left. That raise was great and one more step on getting your where you want to go. That in itself should have boosted your spirits.
Best of luck
Your post was tagged 30 minutes ago. Crap. So typical for me. AM has better luck than me.
Go ahead, hit me Zee09. Crap.
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Yeah I don't do crap well.....
Where's my sodas?
Wear the shirt...read the book...offer to walk some old person's dog around a pond or along a trail.
Also, watch TV less, especially the news. It's designed to make you feel bad.
LDB and Pablo are on the right wavelength. Endeavor to meet people. It may be clumsy at times, but it won't kill you.
Seriously, aside from being a strong, young man/mechanic who shows up to work on time...and all that good stuff, are you, say, a little overweight and possibly not in good aerobic (make your heart beat fast and breathe heavily) shape?
Constant references to Chinese food and Red Robin etc. made me think along these lines.
Commit to an aerobics class or take hot yoga classes. Lots of women take these classes but I don't want to play the 'boygirl' card.
It'll get you out of the house on a regular basis and improving your physical state will lift your spirits.
Beard? Shave it off for Spring. You're young and can always grow it back. Show 'em your face.
No more "bump on a log" posts.
Also, watch TV less, especially the news. It's designed to make you feel bad.
LDB and Pablo are on the right wavelength. Endeavor to meet people. It may be clumsy at times, but it won't kill you.
Seriously, aside from being a strong, young man/mechanic who shows up to work on time...and all that good stuff, are you, say, a little overweight and possibly not in good aerobic (make your heart beat fast and breathe heavily) shape?
Constant references to Chinese food and Red Robin etc. made me think along these lines.
Commit to an aerobics class or take hot yoga classes. Lots of women take these classes but I don't want to play the 'boygirl' card.
It'll get you out of the house on a regular basis and improving your physical state will lift your spirits.
Beard? Shave it off for Spring. You're young and can always grow it back. Show 'em your face.
No more "bump on a log" posts.
Better watch the booze, get out to a gym, walk, ride a bike, get involved in the Martial Arts, etc. Pick one or more and do something good for yourself after work. The booze can kill you.
