Respectfully, you’re assuming a bit too much. Are not both cold starts, and the frequent on-off cycling of hybrid engines also “demanding” engine uses? As for the weasel words about going back to 0w-8 after using a thick 16, don’t forget, there can be, and very frequently are, multiple reasons or motivations behind a particular decision. Sure, that approach allows them to tell regulators, “see, we’re encouraging customers to use the lower vis oils.” But at the same time, you we simply cannot rule out the possibility that the characteristics of the 0w-8 oil actually do as good, or even a better job of lubricating this engine during the operations it’s going to see during 95+% of its life.The bottom line is that Toyota engineers understand Tribology and know thicker oils provide more engine protection with more demanding engine use, and they don't even put a viscosity limit on how thick an owner could decide to use based on their OM statement. The reason they say to change it back to 0W-8 at the next oil change is because they used 0W-8 to qualify it for CAFE credits and part of CAFE requirements is they must "recommend" and push the use of that recommended oil viscosity - also the reason it's also printed on the oil filler cap.
A point to consider: I keep a ScanGauge-III hooked up to my OBD port at all times. One of the parameters I keep displayed on the Home screen is OIL TEMPERATURE. In normal around town driving, the highest temps I’ll see are around 180F. The highest I’ve thus far been able to produce is hovering around 210F, just below 100C, on I-10 doing 85mph or so with fluctuations for traffic (late summer, southeast US ambient temps). This should have the oil right at the 5 cSt, where Mobil advertises, and Toyota engineers expect it to be. If I ever start to see temps high enough to take it out of spec for the grade, then I’ll definitely consider using the 0w-16, temporarily at least.
At this point, my tentative conclusion, subject to change if evidence shows otherwise, is that the A25A engine in this car almost never produces conditions under which a higher vis oils would produce meaningfully better lubrication.