Ways you've been DUMPED or PLAYED by WOMEN!

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With the last thread and it being the forth here in Chi-Town and alot of FIINNEE women are out (I know FINE women everywhere). I thought this topic would be nice. I was and still am a PLAYA some times I get Played. Yes I'm married and children. But I like the women, and like my man Fred G. Sanford said "I'll stop being a dirty old man when I'm a DEAD old man"
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. With that being said, ALOT and I mean Alot of us have been dropped, used or down right PLAYED in our life time thats just how it is. So I would like to hear some of the ways. Me First.

1) When 20years old my girl says she going to the store, after 7 hrs of waiting she never returns
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. MAN I got DUMPED.

2) When in the Army GF asked to use the car no problem, come to find out she was taking another man out that she was seeing another man
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. I got PLAYED.

3) 21yrs old and (tring) to get the draws of this FINE girl, well on our first date she calls me and say "I have a problem can I come earlier", sure, I figure since we hitting the streets anyway why not. Long story short, "Can I have the money you were going to spend on me tonight?"
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. A female PLAYA, gonna PIMP me.

4) Out on a date with this one woman as we sitting at the bar, she cracks on me. "You one of those Cheap men who have to wait for things to go ON-SALE before you buy, I need a man who can get me things NOW". So here I am at this club with this woman (did I mention she was FINE) drinking TOP-SHELF on my cash and talkin about me like that, I'll show her. So I politely told her I had to use the mens room, and I left the B***H, yeah thats right BY HERSELF. I figured she was fine enough to get her own ride home. Gonna talk S*** to me and drink my money, NOWAY
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. She PLAYED HERSELF.

So lets hear you guys story. Don't be shy its how we get our stripes.
Don't hate the PLAYA hate the GAME!
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Dude, if you're still married, you need to stop playing. Seriously.

My sad story has you beat, but I've spent too much time going over(and over and over) it. Just ask Pablo, mori, and Gary.
 
I have ruined a lot of wedding rings so the wife prefers I not wear one as to constatly needing to buy a new one. So I keep her ring on my key chain and she keeps mine on her keychain(she works at a resturant inthe kitchen). So I do not have a white ring on my finger since I almost never wear a ring.

So now the point!! I will go to a bar with the guys and might only get hit on once or twice in an evening if I am not trying to get hit on! If I put my wedding band on I get hit on by women every 5 minutes!! I do not know what it is but it seems that a wedding band is a chic magnet at bar's!
 
I've had real bad luck. GF in highschool had a baby and pointed the finger at me. Blood test proved otherwise.

Same thing with another GF when I was 23. I was ordered by the court to pay child support untill it was proven that it was not my kid.

Never got my $3500 in kid support back.

Had a sweet girlfriend and she moved away with her family. I stayed here, worked 2 jobs and saved enough cash to support me. Moved 2300 miles one way to be near her.

I got there, got a hug then a story about how she fell in love with another guy but wanted to tell me in person.
 
Always played it too safely to be played ... although I had a teen girl acquaintance who consistently flirted (in an intoxicated state) with me to retain a platonic friendship - when I wanted otherwise. Wow, don't miss that.
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Been with the same woman now 19yrs ...
 
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Same thing with another GF when I was 23. I was ordered by the court to pay child support untill it was proven that it was not my kid.

Never got my $3500 in kid support back.






Hey could be a lot worse than $3500. I was reading in maxim about child support cases, one guy was dating a girl, left for the army, and she got pregnant and gave birth ONE YEAR after he left! She put him down as the father, and since he wasnt there to defend himself he was forced to pay child support.

He had to pay month after month, he was going to go to college, but instead he had to take a couple of jobs just to support the child that wasnt his. He had a DNA test done that showed it wasnt his, but the court ruled that "it was better for the child if he kept paying", even though it wasnt his kid! By the time it was all done, he had lost tens of thousands, his chance at college, and his chance at raising his own family, because he was always in debt!

Then they went on to say that you have about 90 days to prove it isnt your kid, then they'll force you to pay anyway.
 
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...one guy was dating a girl, left for the army, and she got pregnant and gave birth ONE YEAR after he left! She put him down as the father, and since he wasnt there to defend himself he was forced to pay child support.






That might be a shock to some people. If you start paying child support, and later prove the child isn't yours, a court can still order you to be liable for child support. If the child goes to college, your finances are a part of the college application so the obligation doesn't necessarily end at 18. Don't screw around!
 
Dang, you have had some bad luck Chris142!

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He had to pay month after month, he was going to go to college, but instead he had to take a couple of jobs just to support the child that wasnt his. He had a DNA test done that showed it wasnt his, but the court ruled that "it was better for the child if he kept paying", even though it wasnt his kid! By the time it was all done, he had lost tens of thousands, his chance at college, and his chance at raising his own family, because he was always in debt!




WOW!!! I can only dream of what it would be like to have the mental stability to put with a situation like that.
 
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