Every dealer is different, they carry different products, they have different philosophies to make money. Use your best judgement, do your research and make a decision. And coming here probably helps.
An engine flush? Skip it or do it yourself. BG has been, and continues to be the money making product scheme at dealers for a long long time. One dealer used to give TV’s away based off the number of BG products you sold. You’d get these BG tokens and you’d save them up to get the TV. It was like a fundraiser for your kid’s football team or something...the more boxes of cookies your kid sells, the more clock radios and windbreakers your kid gets. I knew a guy who used to collect these BG tokens and toss the BG product in the bottom of his tool box. When he got fired (eventually) we moved his tool box out and it weighed a million pounds!! All that BG product weighed sooo much. Probably be very useful to hold down things in a hurricane...but for your engine?? Yeah, not so sure.