Notice the uptick in chain wear over the last 30 years. But, the engines are squeaky clean. Noticed the uptick in excessive oil consumption too. And, no one argues flat tappet cam wear even though the blame game was a joke. Ford also doesn't care for the newer diesel oil specs with their older engines. Fuel dilution was ignored for too long by too many. Thin oil sure helps MPG but what about wear?. Lower zddp levels sure help with o2/AF sensor and catalytic life... Should a sensor or catalytic converter outlast an engine? Or should those cheaper parts simply be replaced as needed?
The wear is happening. The automakers, and oil/additive companies, seem to be continuously behind what is happening out there, in the real world. The R&D is happening at the consumer level.
So, I use a grade thicker oil, and/or maybe bottle or 2 of thicker oil, and I use oil with more zddp than required, a pretty good oil filter, and a typically shorter than 'recommended' interval. All my timing chains/guides/tensioners/vvts are doing pretty good. I don't suffer from oil consumption issues(except for the 2-strokers and rotaries). Most of my engines are doing pretty good with compared to neighbors/relatives/colleagues/coworkers/contractors, and definitely better than the 100's of threads started in 100's of forums complaining about engine noises, sludge, oil consumption, and failures.
But, the thought of changing the oil out a little earlier, using a quality oil/filter, using the dipstick often, being selective with fuel/oil/filters/intervals, is beyond the capability of zombie sheeple drones only worried about their drivethru products and phone glued to face lifestyle. More trust their radio talk show or youtube/instagram/tictoc personality. If there is something you can do to prevent the make believe 'inevitable', would you do something about it?
Its just all antidotal anyway, just like automaker R&D. So, what are you going to do about it?
I don't surrender to "inevitable". And, my antidotal experiences are certainly against the grain of the fools that surrendered.
I also don't have a perfect commute or boring driving style. I could 'egg on gas pedal drive' pretty much any engine for a long low wear life but don't like causing traffic jams(see these clowns daily).