Here are my thoughts which were provoked by the caption and thread ... The following are my opinions based on my experiences, and probably won't align with everyone else.
I agree with Rowe. Not 100% though. My kids (in their 20s) are not lazy, don't live at home; one did college education and one did not, both have good jobs, etc. We didn't coddle them, and made them earn their way, just the way we were raised. We gave them opportunities, not hand-outs. We gave them encouragement (and some tough love), not unwarranted compliments for mediocre efforts. Most of my friends' kids are also held to a high expecation standard.
I lay the blame at my generation though. Too many parents in my generation do/did coddle their kids, assure them they're not losers, tell them they can do "anything they want", etc .... Not ALL parents are like this, but IMO, enough now that it's caused a significant societal problem.
Also, I believe that while college is important for some, it's not necessary for all. Many people can be successful without college. All manner of skilled trades are very necessary, and require something other than "book learning" at a high level. If EVERYONE was a college-grad desk-jockey, there'd be no one to build stuff, maintain stuff, clean stuff, etc. But college is being shoved down our kids throats like it's the solution for everything, but obviously it's not. We want our doctors, laywers, engineers, and all careers which need higher learning to have the right credentials. But it seems as though every kid is looked down upon if they don't go to college. We're shoving so many kids into higher-learning that the supply/demand curve is bent. Colleges raise tuition at rates far above inflation, to "attract" the best teachers, gather donor money, and then bring in kids, all in the promise that their degree will assure them succss in life. That's good marketing but bad advice. College is a choice; it's the right choice for some, but not all. And we're cheating ourselves in the long run because so many other necessary jobs are going unfilled.
Q: what's a room full of surgeons gonna do when the electricty goes out?
A: not a darn thing until the electrican shows up!
We need a balanced, broad workforce, combined with a good work ethic. We're losing both, quickly, and it's showing.
Thus endeth my rant.