That is typically the case with people when you start to listen to the other person. I don’t dispute your experience or knowledge.We agree on something!
But I always choose less wear regardless.
You guys all beat me up about filters but the issue is not that I think you are wrong (I agree on the viscosity and filtration points - I am not ignorant) but that I have had some difficulty warranty experiences I would not want to repeat. Others have too. It’s BS I agree but avoidable aggravation. That’s really all. The 4Runner is on 5w30, and has been a while, since I no longer need to deal with the Toyota jockeys with golf shirts. The Ram has a lot of toys so it is under extended warranty with the downside I still have to deal with the dealer for the occasional warranty issue (back glass; wheel speed sensor).
Have a good day.