People can learn to validate their own experience without needing everyone else's data to back them. Vehicles can run well and underneath it all have sligtly more wear occuring, but that's hard to prove and is only a possibility. It's this simple: Going up a grade won't hurt wear rates and provides more headroom (as the horse that's been beaten to death on this site anytime this topic comes up but it's only natural as the facts haven't changed!)
Your experience can be perfectly fine as a result for you personally. Kudos to you for doing your best with your vehicles, but that doesn't mean others can't chime in on their perspectives and input. Sharing openly is also a "forum" to receiving feedback. That's just the nature of any website like this, but BITOG will chase the root of the matter. That's what I appreciate about this place.
Once we've cleared that elephant in the room of respecting one another though...and that "any oil can work and be sufficient for getting you down the road" (general or basic truth), then we can begin to dive into the subject matter in a more objective way without our emotions clouding our thinking.
This isn't about criticism or personal attacks at all. It's about weighing all of the evidence we have available. And, hopefully, we can cut out the forms of evidence that aren't of good quality or reliability (aka "bad data")
Lighter weight oils made in bulk are part of the reason we see more oil consumption in the last decade plus of TGDI engines; as one example that many respected members have highlighted. That's not vilifying just those oils or saying the blame rests soley there, but it's understanding how they fit into the larger picture of what's going on with this particular issue.
Then, you have wide range of quality of said oils. We don't even have to focus on the wear rate differences, which thinner oils are closer to the line of "just passing" rather than being in a more optimal place; and that's why BITOG exists: We are chasing optimal and have a passion for this in our personal vehicles. I moved up to a 30 grade well after 300k miles on my little Honda Fit. Did my vehicles wear out faster on 20 grade before 300k? I don't know, but I do know I extended the OCIs too far and likely created partially stuck oil control rings. Combined lesser oils with extended OCIs and I'm not surprised at the result. Still, it doesn't hurt moving up to a 30 grade now as the fuel economy difference is more of a factor in how it is driven.
I can own my mistakes with my vehicle and learn moving forward. No shame in that. I had a wrong understanding of how to read UOAs and also the limits to different oils. So what? People are wrong about things all of the time and I'm not exempt. Thankfully, this engine is very forgiving and I still get the EPA rated MPGs between city and hwy. If I bought this vehicle new today? I'd be running 0w-30 the whole time and Amsoil SS, because my driving habits do support extended OCIs, but I need the correct oil for the job per LSJR (I know I know)
