I don't expect to change society. It's very much at odds with my own views, and I can read, so I know how this goes. Bread and circuses. People have figured out they can vote money into their pockets that belongs to others. I'm not going to with that argument.You're basically getting worked up over nothing. Basically the facts of life. Don't like it, get active politically and try to change it, but there's also people on the other side who will oppose you. Your arguments and logic so far aren't very persuasive or strong so I don't like your odds.
You should have learned as a child that not everyone gets their way.
That said, yes I vote, yes I have done all I sensibly can to stave it off for myself. Like you said though, facts.