Higher levels of ZDDP won't help improve oil film strength in your highly loaded con-rod bearings.
It's more important that you pick an oil with reliable film strength. Any of the higher end, synthetic oils, made by reputable companies such as Redline, Amsoil, Mobil 1 and others will suffice.
I've come to really like Mobil 1 5W-40 Turbo Diesel Truck. It's a very robust, true PAO oil, with plenty of ZDDP. But more than that, real world used oil analysis' and racing teardown results have been spectacular in just about any application. In fact, it's good enough for modern 4t motocrossers.
Remember, high RPM engines put extremely high loads on the rod bearings. The inertia of the reciprocating components at extreme RPM puts more force on the bearings than combustion loads could ever hope to achieve (even if turbocharged) . Your oil's film strength must be up to the task, but more than that, it must be up to the task, for an entire oil change interval, under high heat conditions. Pick a top shelf synthetic and change it regularly.
As you probably know, certain high RPM BMW engines have con-rod bearings that are not up to the task. Mostly due to poor design. There have been failures between 30,000 miles and 100,000 miles, with normal driving and much earlier if driven hard. BMW knew this and spec'd a 10W-60 synthetic oil in an attempt at improved film strength. Didn't work. They still fail and no oil is going to fix the problem.
Also, keep in mind that detonation will destroy the oil's film strength very rapidly. Use high quality fuel, and don't allow any detonation.