Rule #1, don't trust the girlfriend...

[Gary Allan]

It's a neurotic thing ..usually amplified if offspring are involved. We tend to view it kinda backwards. It's sorta like gaining weight when they got pregnant. For some it was a natural side effect ..and for many it was "Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..now I can relax. I'm supposed to look this way". It's the same thing with the whirling dervish routine. Chaos makes it seem totally normal.