Tried that already.
When my leg was broken in December 22, I had to have someone else do my brakes, my BIL has a used car lot so I asked his mechanic to do it, I had new rotors and pads all the way around already, but it's hard to work on cars when your leg is broken. I also asked him to look at the ABS error on the dash, they got a used ABS module and put it in, but the error persisted, so they put the original back in. Their diagnosis was the same as mine - I have Forscan, everything seems to point to the ABS module. I wasn't there so I don't know went wrong with the changeover, the new module has to be coded to the PCM apparently, not sure if that didn't go right or something else, or if the used one was just bad.
I've lived with the error for a while now but it's not a spurious error - the wheels will lock up if you brake hard. I transport my family in this car so it would be better to fix it, I'm just looking for a more affordable option. The Module Master Tier 2 option to send the module and motor to them seems like a good one, I had seen that site before but wasn't sure what to think, but now that several forum members have vouched for them, it's probably worth a shot for a quarter of the price of a brand new one. If it ends up being something else, then having a 5 year warranty on the ABS module will still be of good value to me, it will probably cover the remaining time I have with this vehicle, about 3 years until we pay off my wife's car, then we'll probably look for a new one at that time.
I'm also open to other advice if someone here or IRL thinks I'm barking up the wrong tree.