Answer - Yes
You just need to go to your body repair shop and tell them to fix the car, have them contact Progressive to pay for it. (more or less get an estimate or multiple estimates)
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You can take it to where Progressive says it can be repaired at that price, however, its your option to have it repaired wherever you want unless you have some restriction in your policy.
It sounds like you want money over repair because someone you know is getting more. But it doesnt work like that, you get what it cost to repair the vehicle and your its option to have it done or keep the money.