I would get some details on what she wants to do with it? Determine AWD or 2WD, by where she plans on driving it, forest roads in the wet in the mountains would be more fun with AWD.
Next what weight of kayak? A wagon is easier to load boats on the roof or if she's 4'11" then she'll probably want a side loader roof rack for any vehicle, and then a normal CUV is fine.
Kids? dogs? dog crates?
We liked the Outback over the Forester/RAV4/CRV configuration as I think it drives a little smoother on the highway, and its got more passenger space, slightly better mileage, and it can tow a bit more. My wife can load the canoe or kayak on the roof herself too, without fancy racks or stools as well. Slightly bigger foot print and overhangs which can drag for very rough roads though. Get an 2018 or 19 for no GDI. Also statistically quite safe, for their average driver.
If no need for AWD then get a 2WD something, CRV/RAV4/CX5 would be where I'd start looking.