If i had the money for it or the plans I would lean toward a mid sized choice AWD CUV version, hybrid OK. Things change and friends/hauling, maybe significant other, kids. No particular order. Subaru Forester, Mazda CX-5/CX-50, Honda CRV, Toyota Rav4, Mitsubishi Outlander, yeah motor concerns but Kia Sportage/Hyundai Tucson.
I like the slightly higher seating positions in them. I think all have carplay, most wireless, cameras are mandatory I believe for many years.
Try them for comfort, seat cushions rear seat room etc. Once narrowed to a couple, check local rental places (and airports) and rent for a couple days. What is liked on a short test drive might not be liked on a daily commute or trip.