Originally Posted By: LazyPrizm
Originally Posted By: demarpaint
I'll make my definition of loser brief. Lets just call him an acquaintance, since I can't call him a friend. Married with three children, loses $180K/year job, gets a divorce, and loses his house because he likes to get high. He got fired, his wife had enough of his [censored] and filed for a divorce. To me that's a loser. He's working again for $50K/year last I heard, I'm not sure if he gave the weed up though. I have other definitions, but that one should some up what I consider a loser.
The question you should be asking is "would he be a loser regardless of the pot smoking?". I think in most cases, the answer is yes. I went to college in the southwest. A good number of my friends and fellow students at my school were high 100% of the time. Now they are PhDs, postdocs at Stanford, teachers, engineers. No one moved back in with their parents to watch cable all day.
Whether or not a person is a loser is not the fault of marijuana, alcohol, or any other drug or substance. It's the person's fault. It's like wanting guns outlawed because of murders. Guns don't kill, people kill...