Not sure what's wrong with my wife.

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I found a tarantula out by my garage. I brought him in so we could check him out and she screamed,crawled over the back of the couch and ran to the bedroom then slammed the door.

Oddest behavior I have ever seen from her.
 

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I found a tarantula out by my garage. I brought him in so we could check him out and she screamed,crawled over the back of the couch and ran to the bedroom then slammed the door.

Oddest behavior I have ever seen from her.
Chris, your wife is a victim of arachnophobia. A proven way of dealing with any phobia is persistent exposure therapy. You increasingly expose your wife to ever more spidery things until she is cured of her debilitating condition. Hiding a pulsating, about-to-burst egg sack in a cupboard would be a great start. Hide more spider things in your wife's favorite hiding places as impromptu surprises. But do make sure you don't come to harm in the process. They do bite - both spiders and wives.
 
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my wife would have killed the thing in an instant, she has killed snakes, all kinds of critters and insects whatever, she has no fear of them, just doesn't like them
 
I found a tarantula out by my garage. I brought him in so we could check him out and she screamed,crawled over the back of the couch and ran to the bedroom then slammed the door.

Oddest behavior I have ever seen from her.

My wife would say:"now find other spiders, so we can fight them together and get some bets going"
 
We were always taught that killing a spider indoors brought bad luck.

In the movie "Arachnophobia", the mother says to the kids, "Don't kill a spider on the hearth cause it brings bad luck".

Either way, take him outside. He's an indicator of a clean environment.
 
Chris, your wife is a victim of arachnophobia. A proven way of dealing with any phobia is persistent exposure therapy. You increasingly expose your wife to ever more spidery things until she is cured of her debilitating condition. Hiding a pulsating, about-to-burst egg sack in a cupboard would be a great start. Hide more spider things in your wife's favorite hiding places as impromptu surprises. But do make sure you don't come to harm in the process. They do bite - both spiders and wives.
This sounds like a sure fire method of not having to deal with her arachnophobia in the future. 🤣
 
Opposite here, my wife has a tank at work with some spiders in it and I hate them, I won't let her bring them home. I'll see if she has any recent pictures and post them.
 
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