I can rack the slide of my Bersa .380 with 2 fingers, got it right here next to me, and a stiff slide aids in recoil mitigation. Regardless, it's why it's way down on my list and the difficulty is for small weak people to use handguns. They are fighting against physics.I know 2 women with thunders neither of them shoots it much - that's a straight blowback, the slide is stiff and the recoil is significant... Id rather shoot a 45 or 9mm defender all day than a Thunder.
Still think 6 pages of men recommending women's guns is borderline hilarious.
I posted Cornered Cat earlier.
Agree with that, I almost went into it earlier, as some may know in a fan of 1911, a 45 has more of a roll than the snap of the 9mm+p or Super 38. Even more so when Super is loaded to the old standard...By the way, it’s important to note that calibers all feel different when you shoot them. It’s easy to think, "I hated the .380 so how could I possibly stand anything bigger?!" But the truth is that many people find larger calibers more comfortable to shoot than smaller ones. Small calibers often have a snappy-slappy thing going on. The larger ones are noisier, but you may be pleasantly surprised by the feel of shooting one. Don’t be afraid to try."
Note I was quoting the cornered cat site there.Agree with that, I almost went into it earlier, as some may know in a fan of 1911, a 45 has more of a roll than the snap of the 9mm+p or Super 38. Even more so when Super is loaded to the old standard...
My bride is small, she's pretty good with a Defender...
I bought one 5 years ago. Worst gun I've ever owned. Went to two different gunsmiths for warranty work that hasn't fixed the FTEs.I posted Cornered Cat earlier.
I know 2 women with thunders neither of them shoots it much - that's a straight blowback, the slide is stiff and the recoil is significant... Id rather shoot a 45 or 9mm defender all day than a Thunder. I'd even rather shoot a Pocketlite all day than a Thunder.
Suspect the Walter is similar, the one thing the Walther has going for it is that you can get one in 22LR, assuming you could afford 2 you could conceivably do most of your practice with the 22 and use the 380 for defense.
I agree with eh 84/85 I also mentioned that earlier, I think they also came in 22... I had one and my Girlfriend at the time had no issues with it.
Still think 6 pages of men recommending women's guns is borderline hilarious.
I know...it's great. I'm waiting for someone to throw up a recommendation and pic of a Desert Eagle or silly Chiappa Rhino.Still think 6 pages of men recommending women's guns is borderline hilarious.
I think you mean a 42. Yea its a great gun. I had one. Don't be surprised if you have some stove pipes early on. It is/was common. Ihad some but after a hundred rounds I put many thousand rounds through it with no issues. I also have no problem with .380 or 6+1. I always carry an extra mag..il.
I'm looking to offload it in a trade for a Glock 43 because I'm ok with .380 as a defensive round and I have a bit of it in my inventory.
I don't own any Glocks and have never shot one and I'm a retired state cop.
Good call. If she is anything like my wife even she doesn’t know what she wants half the time.Nobody can tell you what gun fits your wife. You need to take her to a range where she can try several different guns to find one that fits her best
You guys and you your sissy wives
I affectionately call mine Hardcore Henrietta... She used to have an LCR in .357, loves my 365 and also went out of her way to shoot this S&W in .460 S&W Magnum!
(I'm joking about the sissy wife thing btw)
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Can confirm.I was going to rebut -
And argue that Mrs. Astro, while stylish, feminine, and a great cook, is anything but a sissy.
She keeps a Beretta 92 nearby. She still has battle rattle from her time deployed. She was a Commanding Officer, as well as Chief of Staff to a 2 star Admiral. She is a retired Captain, USN.
She is quite definite on what she wants.
Woman? You bet.
Sissy? Not a chance!
This isn't a bad deal at all. And it comes with a half dozen magazines, night sights, and is optics ready for a red dot.
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I will also add, that sometimes women don't like advice from men. For that woman, there's a site where women give advice to women, called https://www.corneredcat.com/contents/
There, it's basically elementary school starting point on terms, discussions, etc. Key topics are covered, at a very elementary level, from a female to a female novice audience, and an audience fearful of guns or otherwise not inclined to want to get one or carry, but feel compelled for various reasons. It might help to disarm a woman reluctant to take advice from men.
Here's a good read, and things to consider. I'll yield this author pushes back on thinking all women are alike, and she's entitled to her opinion. But she offers some alternate viewpoints to consider.
One that stands out is size and hand size. I have never seen a woman unable to operate a compact gun, but for a really small woman (OP says wife is 5' tall) perhaps even a smaller gun would be a good option. In that case, I could make a few 9x18mm (Makarov) or proven hammer fired metal framed .380 suggestions. None of these are in my top defensive choices but I would feel confident and not undergunned in typical public carry, so if you're a smaller person with smaller/weaker hands, I would confidently make these suggestions in order of preference.
1. A CZ82 (9x18) or CZ83 (.380acp) or 2. Makarov. Proven designs. I prefer the CZs due to the exceptional trigger and safety and ergonomics. The performance of the Makarov is roughly equivalent to a .380.
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Makarov was a workhorse for decades in the Communist nations and is still a favorite of many shooters today.
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3. Beretta Cheetah, model 84 or 85. This comes in a few calibers but the best for defense IMO is the .380. I particularly like the Cheetah for its frame mounted safety.
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I would next suggest, budget depending, the Walther PPK or a very similar Bersa Thunder both in .380. The Walther is about twice as expensive. Both have loyal cultlike following and are very proven. It's a tie and comes down to budget and preference.
Walther PPK, made famous in Hollywood especially James Bond, has a cult following.
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Bersa Thunder .380.
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I have about 10 Polish P64 pistols in 9x18mm Mak. Cool from a collector's standpoint. The 25 pound hammer spring is a immediate requirement to swap out with something more reasonable (about a $15 easy swap). Cool guns, with the new hammer spring they are serviceable. I would carry one if nothing else available. But at the size of a Glock 19, way way down on the list of a realistic choice in modern times.I've also long been a fan of the Comblock blowback pistols. I've had several Makarovs and still have an East German. Also have a Polish P-64 which is sort of a copy of a Walther PPK. All in 9x18 Makarov. The 9x18 is a tad superior to the 380.
Have many many Tokarev pistols, various nations, and CZ52. Now we are very deep in cold war guns. These are generally really poor choices. I love the ballistics, but it is very powerful and more for penetration than expansion/damage. And these guns are just decades in the past in terms of manufacturing and design. Generally, in modern times for typical self defense, poor choices IMHO.I also used to shoot a CZ-52 in 7.62x25. A heavy chunk of delayed roller locker blowback design. Way stronger than a TT33 Tokarev in the same caliber. Some of the Eastern bloc 7.62x25 ammo was loaded way hot for use in the PPSh-41 submachine gun. The CZ-52 could handle it. That was the highest velocity handgun round and may still be.
I had changed out recoil and hammer springs on the P-64 to something more manageable. I'd agree with much of your assessment on viability of these guns, but I do think that the Makarov is not a bad carry or car choice. So very reliable.I have about 10 Polish P64 pistols in 9x18mm Mak. Cool from a collector's standpoint. The 25 pound hammer spring is a immediate requirement to swap out with something more reasonable (about a $15 easy swap). Cool guns, with the new hammer spring they are serviceable. I would carry one if nothing else available. But at the size of a Glock 19, way way down on the list of a realistic choice in modern times.
Have many many Tokarev pistols, various nations, and CZ52. Now we are very deep in cold war guns. These are generally really poor choices. I love the ballistics, but it is very powerful and more for penetration than expansion/damage. And these guns are just decades in the past in terms of manufacturing and design. Generally, in modern times for typical self defense, poor choices IMHO.
(Great, excellent, caliber for military and really shine in SMGs. I would love a short barreled rifle in x25. But 60 year old handguns, well, eh, there's so many better modern choices IMO. And I own a lot of these.)