Yeah, these stories seem to begin with my dog was off leash and stepped onto the neighbor's property... respect your neighbor's property line and you won't have problems. Lots of people walk their dogs here and don't think twice letting Fido pee or poop on someone else's front yard landscaping. Even if they pick it up which all do but the slobs the lingering smell encourages other dogs to do same. This isn't an HOA problem it's an owner not respecting other's property problem. We now have 3 dogs who walk on leash and are never allowed to do business on someone's property and aren't put out the back door when we go away to bark until we get back. We have a barking dog problem directly behind us that isn't an HOA problem, it's an owner problem. In this town if a dog barks for more than 5 minutes it's in violation and can be reported, city ordinance not HOA. The neighbors are going to meet the animal enforcement officer when I've had enough.
We've been in this HOA for 7 years and have no problems with it. Yes I can't rebuild the engine on my driveway or paint my house red or keep a boat in the front yard and have to keep the property up to a certain standard and am fine with it. I do my OCs in the garage and did a pretty extensive rebuild of the Jeep in the garage with no problems.
As said above some people just aren't meant for HOA living. All of the complaints I've seen come from people doing things that they agreed not to do when they moving into the HOA development and signed that they read the CC&R agreement and agreed to follow the rules. No doubt some HOA board members should not be on the board but they can be forced off in the next election. The media only reports the tiny percentage of crazy stuff.
This has to be one of the best answers I have seen.
For my wife and I never would we have moved south 18 years ago into a community without an HOA. First 16 years a smaller HOA community pool, playground.
2 years ago we downsized into another HOA community on the coast, same deal. I dont want to see cars parked on lawns, boats in driveways (we have a boat) abandoned cars with flat tires in driveways, overgrown lawns and shrubs. engine blocks laying in driveways and all other assorted junk. With that said, either does the 2000++ homeowners here want to see that stuff.
Also your siding needs to be kept clean and even your driveway reasonably clean of moss and algae
Our HOA also maintains countless lakes/ponds, multiple pools including an indoor pool, well equipped gym, two amentiy centers, main one has the gym, indoor pool, large outdoor pool, hot tub, ballroom, meeting rooms etc. Impeccably maintained. Our roads are private, so public not allow to drive around the miles and miles of the community.
Tennis courts, and the pickle ball courts, passkey community gates, 24 hour security guards, manned guard for the main entrance, cameras, license plate readers at every gate and I feel like I am on a resort (which I am) everyday of my life.

GOLF is another option but not required.
Needless to say, no crime, heck we forget to lock our doors and cars most times, even though our house is automated for that too.
With that said, you dont read about this in the media, why do some people think in here? Of course out of the 370,000 HOAs in the USA, the media will always be able to dig up some dirt on someone. Actually out of any 370,000 or anything the media can dig up dirt but they will only do the ones that create "clicks" and ratings.