Hey guys, Don't forget to pay the toll to the troll.
You too huh???quote:
Originally posted by GROUCHO MARX:
"I've noticed the number of post some members have on here, it scares me."
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It scares me too, but my wife won't let me have a girlfriend.
Ditto. If you never had a dad or someone who could teach you all this stuff, this site is a godsend. I'm very thankful "they" put in the work they do.quote:
I, for one, THANK those individuals on this board... who despite the fact that they have long ago answered their own personal oil questions... continue to spend time on BITOG to help others out with their questions. To me it is no different than any other type of community service activity.Would you hate to get old someday thinking about how much time you wasted helping educate kids or helping the poor?
So what? Buy her a wig and use your imagination...quote:
Originally posted by GROUCHO MARX:
"I've noticed the number of post some members have on here, it scares me."
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It scares me too, but my wife won't let me have a girlfriend.
I think it's near B.F.E.quote:
Originally posted by Pablo:
Where is Grove Tucky, OH?
Just asking, because I've never actually scared anyone before. Sounds like a place that doesn't get real scary.
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Oil Forum with a Food and Cooking-Gourmet Section.
Interesting analysis...quote:
Originally posted by johnsmith:
I gave a few people in the stereo equipment thread a bunch of **** for their obsession with high-end audio (read my post please, I understand the point you are trying to make), but the naked truth is that I have absolutely no idea whether or not JHZR2’s (or anyone else’s) involvement with that type of interest is maladaptive. Maybe the ability to patiently and critically dissect fine details is important to some other function in their life, and so honing that skill is vital, rather than destructive to them. Same obsession, different scenario, (e.g. someone who is a police officer), and that skill might not be as valuable: that person might indeed be better served by engaging in a different type of recreation. Or not…. what if that police officer simply takes great joy in fiddling with that sort of thing because he/she is successful at it (raises self-esteem, self-concept) or enjoys the solitude of the activity after a long day, or just reminds them of good memories from times past? Maybe he/she doesn’t really care about the music or the equipment, and only does it so he/she can engage in debates with other people, or attract negative attention from critics. Maybe they only care about impressing someone with their knowledge of a particular subject, or possession of a particular type of good. Maybe they feel guilt or shame about an aspect of their obsession and want to find other people like them to feel accepted and/or escape criticism. Maybe they just want to find people like them period. Maybe there only appears to be a dysfunction/unhealthy level of attachment when in fact there isn’t. Maybe the “disorder” is temporary and will work itself out. Maybe it becomes permanent if you don’t act quickly. Maybe they are driven by the desire to obtain the best of everything. Maybe they are driven by the desire to correct flaws in external objects to compensate for the flaws that they cannot correct in themselves. Maybe it’s all of these. Maybe it’s none of these. Maybe it’s mostly two of these, only sort of a third one, and the fourth one is moderated by how often they get together with an old friend. MAYBE YOU DON’T KNOW.
But as an engineer, I want to be analytical... I want to do tradeff analysis, and see what is smarter use of my money. I appreciate the thought, but for me, im cheap enough to recognize that Ill never spend the kinds of $$$ that some do... I know that Ill budget this amount for this and that amount for that... and then save to buy it. But I want my money to go the furthest, and want to know what Im looking for when Im analyzing what I might buy. There are three types of consumers:quote:
Exactly. If you really want some advice, don't dive into the world of high-end audio to begin with. Searching for the holy grail of musical reproduction has a high propensity for ending in debt (unless you’re rich to begin with), madness and/or AAH (annoying as ****) personality disorder. Think BITOG oil sickness, but worse. Exactly what you don't want; just buy something within a reasonable price range that sounds good to you. Take it from me and use the money you were going spend on all your future audio purchases, and buy concert tickets and go to local shows.
I dont think that any of those are me, except perhaps impulsivity. And thats really why I thought about needing to upgrade in the first place... Now that I havea permanent place, i want to really be able to enjoy listening to music and watching movies. To the greatest extent that $n that Im willing to budget will buy... I do heed your advice about being satisfied and not searching for the holy grail... and trust that my impulsivity will not lead me to this... But that said, is there anything so wrong with impulsivity to want to upgrade from something minimal or nonexistant, up to something that is satisfying in some way? Heck, I was impulsive in deciding thathere I am, a single guy, living in a big apartment at a good price, needs to buy a house. So now Im $280k in debt and have my house. Impulsive move, but isnt still the right thing to do?quote:
Maladaptive behavior is not:
A synonym for "bad behavior," A mental disorder, or An impairment. Maladaptive behavior can often be considered as a sign of a mental disorder (i.e., a sign of a medically determinable impairment).
Examples of maladaptive behaviors
* Emotional withdrawal
* Bed wetting
* Eating disturbance
* Sleep disturbance
* Impulsivity
* Poor concentration and attention
* Hyperactivity
* Temper tantrums
* Negativity and defiance
* Lying, cheating, stealing
* Physical aggression
* Running away
* Self-injurious behavior
* Destruction of another's property