That may have been true 20 years ago. Visit your local junkyard and they'll have rows of vehicles that are there because the engine failed. My local junkyard has the first few rows filled with GM trucks and SUVs. Almost all of the 07+ suvs and trucks, 3.6 Traverses, 2.4 Equinoxes, 1.4T Traxes are there because the engine failed. Next rows are Ford trucks and SUVs. Almost all are there due to 5.4 and Ecoboost failure. Rows after that are Dodge and Jeeps with failed Hemis and 3.6s. I would wager that most non wrecked cars these days go to the junkyard with engine or transmission failure.I most certainly can tell you that the average run of the mill engine will last as long on the Walmart shelf oil as it will on Valvoline Restore and Protect if you change it every 5 to 10k miles ( I like 5k myself).
Anecdotal stories in the Internet are not evidence, and just because there are some models with engine defects doesn't mean the oil is the problem. Most cars go to the junkyard with decent running engines.
There are numerous models where if you are looking for an engine at a junkyard you'll only get one from a wrecked car. Whereas a lot of cars (GM 3.8, pre AFM 5.3 etc) you can pull an engine from nearly any condition vehicle wrecked or not and you'll be just fine.
Not to turn this into a post about sourcing a used engine from a junkyard but you can get a pretty clear idea of what lasts and what doesn't by visting your local junkyard. The Toyota rows are filled with totalled cars and 200k+ mile vehicles that rusted away. The GM, Ford, FCA, Euro rows are filled with <150k mile clean bodies with failed engines/transmissions.