So say you are piloting a large passenger 747 type aircraft over the midwest, and the cargo hold has been on fire for a while, I assume they would rather you try to land at the closest more remote airport even though you'll probably damage it? I would hope they just let you get the plane on the ground ASAP and worry about the details later?
The fire suppression system on the 747 is designed to contain a fire for several hours. Designed, they anticipated this. You have to be able to fly to the nearest SUITABLE airport, not just the nearest airport.
I don’t think you guys understand what is at stake - if you crash the airplane, and everyone dies, you have failed.
Exceeding the limits, whether that be for approach procedure, runway stopping distance, landing weight, flight through mountainous terrain, whatever, results in a crash. That is a fail. Every time.
It isn’t a question of “damaged the airplane” - if the landing gear breaks through the runway on touchdown, because you picked the wrong airport, one that couldn’t handle the weight, and the airplane rolls up in a ball of fire, then that wasn’t a good choice of airport.
Rip the landing gear off an airplane because you missed the runway in bad weather, and ran off the end, or hit the middle of the field, and all that fire gets to all the fuel that just got released from the damaged tanks - even if the passengers survived the impact, they won’t survive the conflagration that follows.
Another fail.
Airport suitability, determined through multiple factors, is not simple. It cannot be. Wind, weather, terrain, approach facilities, approach procedures, lighting, runway length, and yes strength, all have to be considered because ANY ONE OF THEM could cause a crash.