I am closing on a house on the 25th. It is my first house.
It is the job of the Inspector to INSPECT the house and find ANY LITTLE NUANCE that it out of spec or COULD be an issue.
The house we are buying was built in 1978, it is 31 years old. It has some issues. So what? Every house has issues.
It has had foundation work and work done from Termites. Guess what, their are 2 kinds of houses in North Texas. Those that HAVE HAD Foundation work and Termites, and those that WILL HAVE Foundation work and Termites.
I have had a professional Foundation guy come out and take a look at the work done to the slab. He said he approved.
The Inspector we had gave us a 15 page report on what was "wrong" with our house. It was 15 pages of fluff. The house has been there for 31 years. If it was going to cave in due to termite damage, fall into an sink hole, be blasted to bits by a gas leak, then wash away due to cracked pipes, it probably would of already done it.
Its in a nice neighborhood and is a nice house.
This is our first house, and luckily for us it is a buyers market. It is too bad that you are trying to sell. Don't worry about the Inspector, he was doing what he was paid to do by finding every little "problem" and "issue" he could.
I got a more expensive inspector cause I had heard great things about him, I paid $295 for him. If you want another inspection call around and ask questions.
I also agree with the idea of calling a Structural engineer. Where I am from 4 beams stacked and screwed are stronger than 1 beam the same diameter. This is due to cross grain variation and that one boards weak point is another board's strong point. Alot of the longer 2x4s and 2x8s that are mitered together to add lengh stronger points are actually at the joints for this reason.
You could have gotten a guy who was new, or just didn't have a good day.