High Maintenance girls

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My wife is what many would think at first glance is a "high maintenance" girl. As a matter of fact her extreme beauty actually counted against her when we began dating, as I'd been there and done that before.

After nearly 20 years she has proven to be a wonderful friend and companion. Watch out for making too many assumptions before you get to know her. Sometimes they have a bit of defensiveness due to the huge amount of male attention they get.

Don't miss out on a great time just because you are intimidated or she is a bit haughty.
 
Many of these girls turn into drama queens who live on facebook at age 35.
Or, they lose their looks with the first kitten.
Remember, "Chef" on South Park says if you want a woman to gain 15 lbs, marry her.
I prefer the girl next door, myself.
But you will figure this out,
unless you want a casual relationship which is cool.
Never let youth go to waste, you lose it quickly.
Day after day passes and soon you're an old man.
My opinion, if the drama gets too hot, bolt! Keep an eye on your relationship from a 3rd person stance.
Any mind tricks she plays will only needle into you as she learns your foibles. There's a sucker in every transaction;
No reason you should be that guy.
 
I always thought of high maintenance meaning the guys time/money needed to deal with them. Not the time they spend on themselves but it makes sense in the whole package.
 
Being a true BITOG-er and to start off on the right foot, you should sweep her off her feet with your lubrication knowledge...
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I have dated various personality types of women, the high maintenance/drama queens while eye catching at first, all got tiring real quick.

Remember that if her main focus is on herself, it isn't on you....makes for a pretty one sided relationship.
 
If she really take from 3:15 to 6:45 to get ready everyday, you already know the answer.
If you are not in love, look elsewhere.
Maybe talk to her first.
 
Originally Posted By: PandaBear
wake up at 6am for makeup, understandable. wake up at 3am? there's an OCD that needs medical attention.


Years down the line she will be spending hours at the sink. If Carnoobi finds her comfortably familiar, he should think about why.
 
Originally Posted By: Carnoobie
What if shes hot but is stuck up and judgemental?

Sounds like she might get along with your sisters, the ones that make you pay for dinner at their house.
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Originally Posted By: Kruse
Originally Posted By: Carnoobie
It takes her 3.5hrs to get ready everyday. She gets bugged by her sisters cause shes always adjusting her makeup and hair and top every 20mins. Wont go anywhere without her hair and makeup done. She leaves the house at 6:45 and gets up at 3:15am. gross.


Excessive makeup at 22 means she'll want excessive plastic surgery at 32. Avoid her completely? Depends on what you want out of her. Just don't take her home to meet mama......


It depends on if she's half way smart. Ron White: "you can't fix stupid"
 
When I was in High School there was this supper hot girl a few years older than me: I knew her boyfriend at the time. She was very picky and had to have everything just perfect. When I was 30, I found out she was trying to date and marry this really nerdy goof ball. The guy didn't even want to be around her. She was just annoying to be around: Always complaining and needing to be pampered. She was still very pretty, but it wasn't worth it to anyone.
 
Originally Posted By: Carnoobie
Originally Posted By: hattaresguy
Depends on how hot she is. The hotter the more [censored] your willing to put up with.


What if shes hot but is stuck up and judgemental?


BUT?

These qualities go hand in hand
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Originally Posted By: Drew99GT
Originally Posted By: Kruse
Originally Posted By: Carnoobie
It takes her 3.5hrs to get ready everyday. She gets bugged by her sisters cause shes always adjusting her makeup and hair and top every 20mins. Wont go anywhere without her hair and makeup done. She leaves the house at 6:45 and gets up at 3:15am. gross.


Excessive makeup at 22 means she'll want excessive plastic surgery at 32. Avoid her completely? Depends on what you want out of her. Just don't take her home to meet mama......


It depends on if she's half way smart. Ron White: "you can't fix stupid"


Exactly Drew! If she's decent, go for it. If beauty is a thing for her, let her be the best she can be and you, simply enjoy it while it lasts. Go have fun, re-evaluate after a short test drive. There is no commitment to purchase.
 
Originally Posted By: Carnoobie
To me, life is too short to be wasting so much time and effort on making yourself look perfect everyday.


This is coming from the guy who lives at home with an OCD mom who cleans the kitchen for hours everday.



Guys, I really think we're being trolled here.
 
That amount of time seems like a lot, but considering how downright trashy and slovenly so many people look these days, at least she cares about her appearance.

All women are high maintenance, some more than others, but all are. Let somebody else have the ugly ones, get a good looking one that will stay good looking.

No more disrespect than is inherent in the following comment is intended, but your previous posts on here cause me to think you're a pretty high maintenance person yourself.
 
High maintenance, or just insecure? I have been with a few women who are naturally gorgeous with very little make-up. But it took me boosting their self esteem to come to terms with it and to actually lay off wearing so much.

Like others said, you'll never know for sure until you hang out with them. If you are already making assumptions before you start seeing someone, you're doomed in my opinion. Have fun with it, this is what dating's for.
 
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