High Maintenance girls

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There are high maint. women and nutcases. Often the same. Many high maint. women were brought up in a house where the mother did not work and the father took care of everything. Thus the daughter expects it also.

Forget the pre-nup, credit check, background check, get a psychological evaluation.
 
Sigh...another soap opera thread from Carnoobie.

Look, Carnoobie, to answer your original question, you should avoid high maintenance people.

Period.

IF you define high maintenance the way you have, spending hours on themselves, costing other people a lot of $$ in the process, then you've described selfish jerks.

What's the value of having selfish jerks in your life? I can't see why you would want the trouble.

And if a girl is a selfish jerk? Who cares how she looks, she is unattractive in the broader sense....you'll never enjoy being with a selfish jerk, though you might spend a lot of time being hopeful for the physical aspect of a relationship...the important part of that relationship is non-existent and you'll never actually be happy with the jerk.

Pretty is as pretty does...a girl who is solely into herself isn't worth the trouble...
 
Camping is a great way to show what a person is really like. I once camped (several times actually) with a girl that spent the first half hour upon arriving finding all the electrical outlets so she could plug in her hair straightener.

Originally Posted By: Kuato
No. A friend of ours and his wife went camping with us. She took over 2HOURS just to do her hair before she. and out of the tent. On a camping trip. Just no.
 
Camping and or a canoe trip down a "river" is a great way to see if someone is marriage material.

If they work with you and you don't want to kill each other after such a trip, there may be a future with this person.

If not, end it now before you get emotionally and otherwise invested.

Originally Posted By: kschachn
Camping is a great way to show what a person is really like. I once camped (several times actually) with a girl that spent the first half hour upon arriving finding all the electrical outlets so she could plug in her hair straightener.
 
Originally Posted By: ToyotaNSaturn
Also, test her to see how controlling she is with the tip you leave the waiter when you go out to eat.


You can figure out who has the upper hand. If she nags you about the toilet seat being up, wait five minutes then ask if she's going to be wearing that "out". When she asks why, just say, "oh, nevermind".
 
Originally Posted By: JHZR2
Not worth it. If she has to be all done up to look good, then there is a problem there. Think of 10 years down the line - dont want to have too much upkeep down the line. You want natural beauty who upkeeps well and looks good with nothing done.

You want a girl who is good looking and knows it and stays natural. Someone who puts that much work into it has a complex of some sort.

I totally agree here. Looks will fade with age, but personality will always stay the same. My g/f doesn't wear any makeup and hasn't since I have been with her. She isn't into fashion, prefers jeans and a Tshirt over trendy clothes anyday. She loves old musclecars, likes guns and shooting as well. Can't ask for much more!
 
Originally Posted By: stockrex
Girls=high maintenance


They're like old radial engines. They may take 3 hours in the morning to get going, but once up and running, they make the most pleasant sounds!
 
Originally Posted By: eljefino
Many of these girls turn into drama queens who live on facebook at age 35.
Or, they lose their looks with the first kitten.
Remember, "Chef" on South Park says if you want a woman to gain 15 lbs, marry her.
I prefer the girl next door, myself.
But you will figure this out,
unless you want a casual relationship which is cool.
Never let youth go to waste, you lose it quickly.
Day after day passes and soon you're an old man.
My opinion, if the drama gets too hot, bolt! Keep an eye on your relationship from a 3rd person stance.
Any mind tricks she plays will only needle into you as she learns your foibles. There's a sucker in every transaction;
No reason you should be that guy.



LOL

MORIBUND MAN!
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Originally Posted By: xxch4osxx
My g/f doesn't wear any makeup and hasn't since I have been with her. She isn't into fashion, prefers jeans and a Tshirt over trendy clothes anyday. She loves old musclecars, likes guns and shooting as well. Can't ask for much more!

Does she have a sister?
 
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