Yes a wrap can help, especially during that heat soak period once you turn the engine off. The question is how much trouble to go to, and if they get wet they may turn funky fungusy.
I don't understand your concern about a wrapped coolant part taking too long to show a leak. It's not like a wrap is going to absorb gallons of coolant. If it's only a tiny leak that dries up without ever dripping, you should be able to go long enough to notice it the next time you regularly check the coolant level, and of course you know you have a good temperature sensor so if it starts to get hot, wrap or not, coolant leak or not, it is time to shut her off.
If it's really worrying you, how about some fiberglass wrap and epoxy resin to fortify it? Just make sure you identify the plastic type and its compatibility with the resin... maybe test a scrap junkyard part.
In some cases, like elbows to the heater corehose, you might find someone like Dorman that makes a cast aluminum replacement. That what I ended up using on a GM 3800 engine for example. Then again, you could just replace the plastic parts every few years with new plastic so they aren't yet getting brittle enough to fail.