Yes. I’ve been at it 49 years. My wife dragged me to Christmas Tree Shops in Jersey today. One of those insufferable novelty stores that has Christmas stuff out two weeks before Thanksgiving. I finally found a bench to plop down on and another elderly gent asked if he could share it. Then he said ‘ How long are you in for?” The Shawshank Redemption immediately came to mind..we both laughed.It's amazing how much more one learns about their spouse/partner after tying the knot, even if you were together for a long time prior to formalizing it. We must have some sort of selective comprehension that accepts the good stuff and suppresses the bad stuff. I've been in to it for 45 years. One must have the resolve of both the deep rooted mighty oak and the bendy willow/reed.