Thanks for the replies all. Appreciate it. Going to make a few replies/comments here in one post vs. a bunch of individual posts to address some things...
No, I am not a picky eater as one poster said. To the contrary I have a diverse range of foods I like. Certain things however, due to their texture/consistency or funky flavor, just turn me off. With Grits it isn't so much that they are bland it is more the texture/consistency. Mostly it is the "grit" in the Grits. Makes me feel like I am having a meal at the beach with sand in it. No matter where I have had Grits, be it a restaurant or prepared at home by a true Southern cook, they all have been "gritty" to me. Must be where the name comes from. As I said, I can choke them down with a sauce or gravy on them but even that is hard.
No, I do not like Polenta and yes I know it is basically the same thing as Grits( don't recall any Polenta I have eaten being "gritty" like Grits however ). As I understand it, the difference between the two is the number of milling cycles and size of the grind. Polenta is much finer. I am just not a big corn meal flavor person I guess. Not a big corn bread fan either although I am told by many I make the best they have ever had. Love me some cornmeal used in my dredge for fried seafood and onion rings but not a fan otherwise it seems.
Many have said to be sure it is slow cooked and not quick grits. I did mention I knew that and had eaten them. Again, I have had them in VA, NC, SC, and GA. Those folks know to use the real thing.
As I said, and many have echoed, it probably has a lot to do with what you are brought up on as a kid. I am sure there are staples from my childhood and the New England area I like that others don't. There was no judgment in my post. I am just curious how people can rave about them the way they do. That "gritty" sand like texture just turns me off so bad.
Oh, one poster mentioned they had the Grits at Cracker Barrel. I must say of all the Grits I have ever tried the ones there( regardless of location )have been the worst for me. Like eating a big bowl of sheetrock compound with sand mixed in. Wasn't sure if I was supposed to eat it or do a textured surface on the ceiling with it. Just HORRIBLE! I actually tell the waitress not to bring them now. Just a waste of food to do so as I won't touch them.
Someone said something about they assumed I was not a fan of Cream Of Wheat either. While I am not sure what a wheat product has to do with a discussion on Grits that is made from corn the answer is no I do not like COW. FWIW I do love oatmeal however.
Thanks again to all.