What does the OP mean by "gray deposits"? Residue on the dipstick? Not normal. Just some greyish haze of the oil? That's why I asked for a picture.
To make an oil look greyish you'd need several thousands ppm of Mo. Common PCMOs contain up to like 500 ppm Mo (Redline, very most oils have way less) and they still don't look any greyish or dark. That said, particles smaller than 1 µm are not visible and much bigger than that (>50 µm) would be retained by the oil filter almost completely.