Originally Posted by thooks
Originally Posted by dishdude
Originally Posted by RazorsEdge
Originally Posted by dishdude
Rough crowd, gheesh.
Yup so many negative people anymore!
We all know the folks pounding their chest in this thread walked barefoot in the snow uphill both ways to school.
I grew up pretty poor. I suspect many of you grew up with pretty much everything you wanted, a college education was paid for by your parents, as was a vehicle at 16, along with insurance, fuel, maintenance, spending money and pretty much what all the other Joneses had. Every cable channel, great birthday parties, summer vacations, you name it.
I, like the other poster above, walked roadways and such and picked up 6 oz, 12 oz and 32 oz Coke bottles to take to the grocery store on Saturday when my mother went so I could return them for deposit money. Stupidly, I'd go buy a Matchbox or Hot Wheels car, maybe have enough for a fishing lure, weights or some line. This started about age 7.
By age 9, I was pushing a lawnmower around the neighborhood with a 1-gallon gas can on it and looking for yards to mow. $3 was my price. This was the late 70's, BTW. I carried in groceries for a couple of neighbors and took their trash out, they'd give me 50 cents. I would stop by a small boat dealer in the afternoons and see if I could sweep or clean the bathroom....yes, I was still in elementary school at this time.
In my early teens, I was still mowing, raking in the fall and I'd try to work at some farmer's market stands. When I was 15, I had a steady job for a couple of farmers tending their stands at the farmer's market...saved that money so I could go have an extensive eye exam and get a pair of gas perm contacts. I was tired of wearing glasses. I paid the entire bill, it was about $400 back then for all of that. My mother simply didn't have the money for it. She always made $70-100 more than the max for any government assistance...but still struggled to raise two boys, but she did it.
I've had a W2 job every day of my life since I was 17. Before that, it was all those other "jobs"....doing all sorts of 'side jobs' for money. At most points in high school, I was working two jobs, played on the high school baseball team and still went to school all day. During college, I went to school basically M-F 7:45-3:00, then worked full-time (40 hours a week) in a grocery store from 4-10 M-F and 10 hours on Saturday. After that, I have worked side jobs doing electrical / plumbing work at nights/weekends and other side work.
If I have wanted/needed more money, I've always sacrificed and WORKED for it. I don't need a union or the government pleading my case for me. Never have. I can't figure out why others do.
I didn't consider my family poor but money was tight. I also started work early in my teens. Back then jobs like bag boys at the local grocery store were common.
These jobs not only made us some money but they taught the importance of a work ethic. Showing up on time and doing the job well. Summer jobs were plentiful as well.
Today's idea of sheltering kids and not exposing them to these life lessons is making them into timid turtles. As a manager back in my work days I had to reprimand young employees for being late or not showing at all. The blank stares I got back told the story. They don't understand.