Maybe it's unwise to ask strangers for advice, but here goes.
Yesterday my girlfriend asked me to marry her, I said yes.
She lives at home with her mom and siblings, dad died this summer of a heart attack.
She already spends a lot of time at my place, where I live with my grandmother.
Should I officially ask her if she wants to move in, or just let it progress on its own? We've been together 3.5 years, she is 23 years old, and slowly over time she has moved several items to my house, and sleeps over more and more, to the point where she already sleeps over more than she sleeps at her family's house.
Do I ask her to make it an official move in, or since it has worked as is, just let her do whatever she wants.
More than anything, I don't want her to feel that she isn't welcome to move in and call this her home.
Grandmother and girlfriend get along great, and love each other.
Sure I had other girlfriends in the past, but not that I would ever consider asking to move in, or I loved deeply, and just appreciate their company. When she isn't around I miss her, and we have a lot in common. My last girlfriend who was older than me, was immature. At 23, she is very mature, not into the bar scene, no drug use, doesn't smoke, maybe a drink or two per week, full time job.
Yesterday my girlfriend asked me to marry her, I said yes.
She lives at home with her mom and siblings, dad died this summer of a heart attack.
She already spends a lot of time at my place, where I live with my grandmother.
Should I officially ask her if she wants to move in, or just let it progress on its own? We've been together 3.5 years, she is 23 years old, and slowly over time she has moved several items to my house, and sleeps over more and more, to the point where she already sleeps over more than she sleeps at her family's house.
Do I ask her to make it an official move in, or since it has worked as is, just let her do whatever she wants.
More than anything, I don't want her to feel that she isn't welcome to move in and call this her home.
Grandmother and girlfriend get along great, and love each other.
Sure I had other girlfriends in the past, but not that I would ever consider asking to move in, or I loved deeply, and just appreciate their company. When she isn't around I miss her, and we have a lot in common. My last girlfriend who was older than me, was immature. At 23, she is very mature, not into the bar scene, no drug use, doesn't smoke, maybe a drink or two per week, full time job.
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