That's not what the wear results in the publications referenced in the video seem to show. Review the displayed graphs from about the 35 minute mark. The GM work from the 2000s shows a 10W40 to be the wear-control equal of a 0W10 at cold start, and superior everywhere else.
At 36:30, Figure 13 you are referring to, what was the oil temperature in each of those test run cases? What's the difference in oil formulation with respect to the AF/AW additives between all the different oils used? AF/AW additives are heat activated too, so that along with exactly what kind of AF/AW additives were used and how they activate with heat could be a factor in the mix of many factors going on. I'm betting the oils used were not all the same formulations and just changed the multi-viscosity grades (ie, what's GG, EE E, AA and FF designations mean?). The best way to do a test like this would be to formulate all the viscosities used with the same level of AF/AW additives to take those factors out of the equation. It's hard to just look at a graph like that and not get the whole story unless you can read the whole study.
On a side note, Figure 13 shows that there was less wear across the board with all viscosities when the engine was ran at WOT at 4000 RPM vs WOT at 2000 RPM. Don't know what the load was on the engine at those test points, so it's possible there was less load on the engine at the 4000 RPM point (ie, same HP output, but less torque output at 4000 RPM - ref HP equation). More load at the same RPM will result in more wear. Could also be because at higher RPM there is more oil film thickness created between moving parts, which helps reduce wear. Yes, he's right that "lugging" an engine at high throttle opening puts more load and results in more wear vs the same load at higher PRM.
I can make all kinds of other comments and ask all kinds of questions on the data he's cherry picking from the SAE papers. For instance:
At 35:20 ... Figure 3 only shows the cylinder jacket temperature, but what was the oil temperature at the same time?
At 35:55 he rattles off all kinds of factors (reading from the study info it seems) that can have an effect on the wear during warm-up.
At 36:15, Figure 14 is interesting because if you look at it carefully you can see between time 2.8h and around 3.5h that they varied the coolant temperature up and down some (which would effect the cylinder liner temperature), but the wear curve is basically constant in correlation to the oil temperature, not the coolant temperature. What I'd like to see is keep the cylinder lining (coolant) temperature constant and just slowly cool down and heat up the oil temperature. Then do the vice-versa by keeping the oil temperature constant and vary the coolant temperature.
Anyway, the bottom line is wear does increase when the engine is warming up, and perhaps when an engine is ran at constant cooler temperatures. All these studies come to that same basic conclusion about when more wear occurs, but no study can pin-point it to one specific factor that causes it ... it's a complicated mix of many factors.