1 - Health care costs can be astronomical. The #1 reason people go bankrupt in this country is suffering a major health calamity, and those people have insurance. They max out. This is a tough one.
2 - If you are lucky enough to have money to help family, friends and other groups, perhaps do it now. Why wait until you die? What if they need it now? My personal preferences are education and cars. Cars can include service and training, among others. But generally if the car is a gift, it has to be in support of something like education or work. I plan on leaving local public colleges something. Importantly, urging people to earn their own way is the goal of helping. There has to be a reason for the gift. Computers for school are my favorite.
3 - There are all kinds of work. Do the dishes is a good one. Each to his or her own, but I am happier when I am productive. I may be wrong, but laziness tends to lead to misery.
That's my 2 cents. Want your money back?