I agree. 10, 11, 12 is all marketing. What matters is the ratio difference between the smallest & biggest (e.g. 10-42 = 4.2:1). Once you get 9 or 10 gears, the steps between ratios are plenty small enough that having more (like 11 or 12) is totally irrelevant. In fact, it's counterproductive as it makes the sprockets and chain thinner and less durable, and the derailleur tuning more sensitive, and the cog heavier.
Reasons:
1. The stress/wear on any cog is divided by the # of teeth engaged. Bigger cogs = more teeth = less wear.
2. Bigger cogs are heavier.
For these reasons, the big cogs can be made of Al without wearing out too fast while staying light.
That said, 50+ tooth cogs seem excessive. A 30F - 42R is low enough that the max slope is limited by traction not gearing. And those super big cogs require derailleurs with long cages, especially when the small cog is a 10 or 11.