I'd go out on a limb and say that all the folks on BITOG saying they love their newer Ram have changed the oil before and realized it isn't really that bad..Everyone here must have not changed oil in a newer Ram before. You will hate where the oil filter is. I talked to some of the Mopar techs at work they said it causes the steering module to fail all the time because oil gets in it. It’s right above the rack and pinion and electronic steering module. Can’t remember but I think it’s on the V8 ones. Ford would be my number one choice for a truck. I feel they are the best built. Second would I guess be the Tundra even though I’ve never been a big fan of them. Third Ram and Fourth Chevrolet or GMC because those are the ones I work on all the time and they are ugly at least I think so. Not saying the others won’t have issues either it just seems we work on a lot of the Ram and Chevrolet and GMC. Usually for transmission problems or electrical.
To the OP I'm very much in the 'they're all good, drive all the brands and pick the one that does it for you' For me it was the Ram. Best interior, and best transmission in the ZF 8 spd. I love a manual trans and never thought I'd have an automatic that I truly liked, but the zf with the Hemi is a seriously good combo. I've heard very good things about the new ford/GM 10 spd as well but haven't driven one.