Tight valves don't always cause misfires. Tight valves usually cause valve head/valve seat failure because of improper sealing or insufficient time to cool the valve when it's closed.
Loose valves can also cause problems, especially in modern engines with sophisticated ECMs - things such as a rough idle. You suggest that loose valves are harmless. Since the manufacturer provides specs for valve clearance, how loose is too loose?
FWIW, Honda specs .008" - .010" for the intake valves, .011" to .013" for the exhaust valves.
As far as feeler gauges being subjective, I disagree completely. You have to know how to use them correctly. For the most accurate results the feeler gauge must be inserted perpendicular to the face of valve stem surface.
And why would someone go through the trouble of removing the cam/valve cover, checking the valves, but leave the loose ones loose (a subjective decision), and then put things back together only to have the engine sound like it needs a valve adjustment because of excessive valve tick?
Scott