Many jobs around me are $17.00 to $20.00 an hour-these are entry level. That's $41,000.00/yr. Still difficult to live on your own in most cities with that. However-debt is a fact of life if you want a house. The money ship has sailed to pay cash for a house any where that's decent. They are simply too expense. In my area your parents would be paying $2,000.00/month to rent an apartment-TODAY.Many people are not financially responsible, but it is also taught to them at an early age that debt is just a fact of life and they should take on more. My parents went to college in the early 80s, and rented apartments while going to state colleges and only working part time. They paid for school as they went. When I went to college (2008) there was no way I'd get approved for an apartment around here only working part time while being in school. I lived home, commuted, worked full-time, and somehow graduated with no debt. I was the minority then, and with tuition costs I'm not sure that is even possible now. People are graduating college with mountains of debt, and most have a car payment. $30-35k starting salary isn't going to cover that plus an apartment lease.
Respectfully-can't compare what you parents went through.