I think it is all about reading up on the best snow tires you can afford.
I had Pirelli Snow Control II on my Honda Fit for one Winter, and I couldn't even drive up a small hill into the parking area at my apartment building. Tire spin city!
I was like oh poop! Then I got to reading up on it and went with Yokohama IG-20s.
Man, what a difference. I love those tires!
Remember, Winter tires are a compromise. There is a snow tire, ice tire, ice and snow, All-Season etc.
You have to find the right tire for the conditions you usually drive on.
I had a guy come to the tire shop and ditch a set of Michelin X-Ice II after only one month of use, these things were BRAND NEW.
I spoke to him about it and he said he didn't find they worked well in Montreal condtions. He would slip around and have wheel spin.
He went with a set of Blizzaks, I have never heard any complaints from people running Blizzaks.
People say the Yokohamas are a bit squirrielly on dry pavement but I never push my car. Steer clear of them if you are a lead foot in the Winter.